ive been with my fella for 6 yrs, i work 9-5 and he does weekly shifts, the weeks he does lates i feel ive got my freedom, when he is on early's i feel i have to be at home, but it bores me
2006-08-20 04:48:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
are you crazy get out of that situation if your bored now can you imagine what it will be like in another 6 yrs move on girl
2006-08-20 04:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's your fella, married or not, you hit on the 5 year mark and that is when almost all relationships go through the rough patch. You seem to want something more or someone new, yet you don't want to give this relationship up because you've grown accustom to each other. You need to put a little of the passion back into your relationship you had in the beginning, laugh together, make some plans (even if it's for the future). Do something TOGETHER so you get back in sync with one another and ride this out if your relationship is worth saving. I've seen to many people today just give up and 10-20 years down the road say I should have tried a little harder.
2006-08-20 12:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal for you to feel this way. Some people need a little reminder of what they first fell in love with. I went through the same thing and I took the easy way out and I left him. We worked different hours and I wasn't about to change my job because of that, I loved my job too much to do that. When he would go to work I was so relieved. I would go sit on my patio talk with my neighbors and have loads of fun. When he was home I would never do that because I knew he wouldn't want to, although I never really did ask. Now 3 yrs later I'm still thinking maybe I did not do the right thing by leaving him. Things get tough in relationships use your best judgment. Think long and hard before you make any harsh decisions.
2006-08-20 12:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should discus this with him.
i goty bored of my fella after he crashed his car and we were doing the same things every single day month after month. i told him and he got a new car within a week and the love came back.
maybe you need some time apart or similar working hours.
2006-08-20 12:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship fast,in fact now if you can.He obviously isn't the one for you.
If your bored after 6 years,what will it be like after 2O.
You only live once, make the best of it.
2006-08-22 10:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if you do the same routine everyday for the next 365 days so on, spice it up a little, be naughty with him for a change.
2006-08-24 04:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by spunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not ok to be bored. You're both gotten into a all work no play mode and you need to find a way out. Life is too short to be unhappy in love.
2006-08-20 11:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems that the routine that you guys have, had made you guys forget about your relationship,girl is time to spice it up !!!!talk to him about it and together come up with a plan, I'm sure he will like you to include him and to know what's in your mind. six years is a long time but it can be better if you put some effort in to it
2006-08-20 11:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by ny_lollippop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why can't you both go out together? it's fine that you feel free to do what ever you want, but you are at the point that your dreading spending time with him let him know how you feel, if he had the same feelings you wouldn't ant to be left in the dark.
2006-08-20 11:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships end when one or both of you is no longer learning and growing from the association, if he bores you and fails to stimulate you then time to move me thinks...
2006-08-20 11:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋