I am in love this guy and yet he isn't "up to par".... I have a child and yet this 22 year boyfriend of mine is still living at home and his mom still does everything for him. He is getting ready to leave for job corps, so I guess that is a plus..... As far as that last sentence goes I already know what I need to do, but when he touches me it is like heaven and when he kissies me it is breath taking.... I do love hin but is it right to??? Should I really have to wait for him to grow up or should I move on???
2006-08-20 05:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you every talked to him about this situation? if you haven't i think you should take to him and if he doesn't want to grow up, be the mother and grow him up, if you understand what i mean.
2006-08-20 05:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost you're mom and that is the most important thing. Do you want a lover who is on the same page as you; being responsible holding a job, a place to live, paying bills or do you want a lover who you have to take care of like you do with your own child? The choice is yours but I am sure there are men at there who can satisfy you and meat your needs and doesn't live with their mommy.
2006-08-20 05:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by glamr216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. The quicker the better. Let the momma's boy go. He is very immature if his mom still does everything for him. The physical feelings will slip away when you start being his mom. And, it will happen. You already have one baby. Why stay with an adult one?
2006-08-20 05:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by GOSHAWK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word for you RUN! Until he shows signs that he is growing up you should not put you or your child in a situation like this especially if his mom is still taking care of him.
2006-08-20 05:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a real man and let the free loader grow up
2006-08-20 05:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this one is on you. Obviously there is a definite attraction there, but is it just lust? It is a good thing that he is leaving and hopefully he can learn to be more mature and more responsible while he is away. See what happens when he returns but dont rush it..... if its meant to be it will.
2006-08-20 05:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him that much, you will wait for him to grow up, or move out of his mom's house
2006-08-20 05:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's not worth it.
2006-08-20 05:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by WILSON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)move on
2)you really need a vibrator
2006-08-20 05:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on mychild god bless you
2006-08-20 05:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋