2006-08-20 04:41:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you aren't sure, don't get married. Big mistake.
2006-08-20 04:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by thebluebeagle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, don't move forward. Step back and analyze relationship. It's definitely confusing, I'm in the same situation. A relationship can not be based on comfort or sex alone. Good Luck!
2006-08-24 04:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cris W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the don't get married advice, and would add do NOT have children together yet. But, comfort and sex are two good things in this world, so if they provide you current pleasure, perhaps it will develop into total love. Who knows, enjoy the moment but make no long term commitments at this point.
2006-08-20 04:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by jh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends what you want to love him for. If you feel comfortable with him that is good but sex is a plus but you can't build a relationship on sex alone even though it is fun trying
2006-08-20 04:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? and at this point in time...who cares? Just live for today and continue to enjoy the comfort and sex...sounds good to me....life is a process and the process takes time....I'm sure you'll find out one day whether you have true love. Don't ruin what you have today by worrying about the longterm outcome.
2006-08-20 04:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. Whats the rest of thr relationship like. I take it you like him, you go out with him, you talk to him, you share with him - those things along with the comfort and sex make up a relationship. Surely if you are happy there is no need to over analyse your feelings.
2006-08-21 00:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Ms Confused, If you are doubting about why you love your man. I think you need to take a few steps back and figure out why you are with him in the first place
2006-08-20 08:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him ?
Do you love the comfort ?
Do you love the sex ?
Do you love the comfortable sex with him ?
I can't tell you, I don't know him.
What about him ?
2006-08-20 07:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if sex is all thats there then jus do wha makes u feel better.......sex sex and more sex...but if he tries to get more serious then bak up on the sex...cuz some people catch feelings when they are intimate....but make sure hes aware of the situation so he doesnt get hurt.....there are ways of saying it without saying it,,,,if ur not a straight foward person
2006-08-20 04:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't know, then maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship. Make a list of the pro's and con's, total them and you'll have an answer.
2006-08-20 04:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love a man for both. Some women have been with men for less. Like money.
2006-08-20 04:46:44 · answer #11 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋