My mother's boyfriend had a massive heart attack yesterday and died.She's been really depressed and crying in her room all day.there's more to the story than this in my other question.My mother is 44 years old.She was married to my father but he died when I was 7 years old.In 2000 a guy that she really loved was shot and killed.And now this has happened to her.She's thinks all of these things are her fault.I don't know how to make her feel better.And I don't want my mother to give up on finding someone for her.What can I do to help her?
2006-08-20 04:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by DiamondXxx 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sweety i am so sorry. all i know is that people die the month the day the hour the second and the minute that god chooses for us. Your mom must be some special woman for god to pick for those three men to spend the last part of their lives with. I wish there was a way to let your mom know that she had nothing what so ever to do with their death's. God work's in many different way's, and i am sure that God won't put anymore pain in her life. Please ask her to try to be strong and never lose faith because god has something good for her in store.my prayers and thoughts will be with your mom as well as you.
2006-08-20 05:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing things together like going to the movies are something, are going to get your nails done just do things together to let her know that your there and she's not alone in the situation let her know that your their for here every minute of the day. God is walking with you and your family he'll never turn way.
2006-08-20 12:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by N'moshun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there to support her. Maybe you can find a counsel group and attend classes with her until she either gets pass this or is comfortable going by herself. But the main thing is for her to understand that it isn't her fault. Also spend more time with her.
2006-08-20 12:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i am sorry your mother is having to go through this. all that you can do is make sure she knows you will do anything to help her through this painful time. Get her out of the house, maybe a picnic.
2006-08-20 12:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her out of her living area and take her on a long hike if you can. Get her out into nature (with NO city or human sounds, just nature) and have a heart to heart with her. Be sure to let her cry and get it all out. BE A GOOD SHOULDER TO CRY ON!!!!
2006-08-20 11:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by milehighstar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I, agree big papa.you try and we pray for both of you.
2006-08-20 13:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by <<< sky >>> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋