i think guys like beautiful girls, i do and my dream is to have a beautiful girl as a gf. However, i know that dream cannot be completed if girls don't like me. And since i am a very ugly guy I don't think they will. the thing is, i've heard girls care more about personality than about looks but i doubt that. So how does this work, how do ugly people like me find a mate? Do i just have to give up wanting a beautiful person and accept anyone?
2006-08-20 04:15:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it depends on your age. As people get older, some of us lose our good looks that we once had and are more accepting of other people.
By the way, why do you want a "beautiful" girl? How about a pretty girl, or an average girl? What about personality?
There are certain famous men who aren't all that good looking who have beautiful wives...especially if they are extremely wealthy and good at real estate.
2006-08-20 04:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question has an answer which is only too obvious: date a blind girl. She will never know! Ha ha!
I suppose they are hard to find...the alternative is to wear a mask until the girl gets to know your personality better. Then once she knows you well, and you reveal yourself, you hope that she is so in love with your personality that she will not run away...
Just wear a fancy suit really if those other two will not work for you because that makes you at least look intelligent! :)
However, being nice and honest usually seems to be enough!
2006-08-20 15:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sterotype probably started by "hunks" with no brains.Women are more interested in men with good personalities, good sense of humor and add something to the realtionship.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Great personality,intelligence and good communication skills are all attributes that I personally look for in a man.I want someone that I can enjoy being with and can carry on interesting conversation.If his only attribute is his looks; then he is not the one for me.
Do you love me because I am beautiful or am I beautiful because you love me.?If someone is loved only for their beauty then after they have lost their looks then what? Being beautiful has nothing to do with outward appearances.It's what's in your heart and personality that makes you beautiful.
You are not ugly, you are uniquely made in God's divine image.The person you truly fall in love will be beautiful to you.
"Don't over look an orchid while searching for a rose"
2006-08-20 18:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah... u are wrong...
eh.. my bf is ugly. he is short, plump, acnes all over his face.. but his character n personality is the best among all the guys that dont have!
n that doesnt mean ugly bf only have ugly gf.. coz im not! i won a number of beauty contest, im a model, n i got all kinds of rich, handsome suitors from all over..
but really, this bf i have, i am the one who chased after him.. n he tot i was playin with his feelings from the beginnin.. it was hard at the beginnin, coz friends sabotaged us, my parents dont like him, n he feel very insecured... who knows, we are tgt for goin 2yrs.. n if nothing happens, after our university, we will be engaged soon after we grad...
n i can tell u, all my girls are really jealous of me. he is really the type all girls would want.. n my parents now loved him!
he compromised, he cooks for me, he take care of everything when im sick, he is super sensitive towards a girl, small little details n surprises.. even during a fight(nothin physical!!) he will always b the one who apologise no matter who is wrong(which later, he will always talk to me tackfully when im much 'stable' n calm..) n where can u find such a guy who understands that nothing can be solved in a heated argument if the girl go crazy?
n when there is a puddle of water infront, without saying anything, he will jus piggyback me n faster cross over it even b4 i could even react on anything?!
gosh, he is fantastic. really.
no matter how gd lookin one is, they will all become wrinkled n ugly. be rational, set ur view far-sighted. stability is important as well..
no doubt, journey mayb harder if many pple out there judged by looks.. but never the less, u will find somegirl out there who goes for character n personality...
2006-08-20 06:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you are a warm, sincere, fun, confident, intelligent man that has alot to offer a woman, then you may still be in the game. But the trick is to find a woman that you like for who she is that also just happens to be beautiful.
If you are only going after women who are beautiful because they are beautiful, forget about it. We can sense shallow jerks and only the ones with very low self esteems would even consider dating someone like that.
There has to be more to you and you have to recognize that there is more to them than beauty.
2006-08-20 04:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really too bad that you don't think girls don't like guys for their personalities, because they do. One of the problems that girls have with less handsome guys is that they lack confidence, girls love that in a guy; and because you always put yourself down, you never have enough confidence. If you have an outgoing and friendly personality, girls will look past the cover. In the end, personality always wins.
2006-08-20 04:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by quanger33 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Most people sense intuitively how they rate and will only approach similarly rated opposites. I think I'm an 8, and I'm looking for a 7. I don't like guys who are too "pretty."
2006-08-20 04:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by connie_mspt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i don't think what you said is true not every girl likes a guy that is handsome, some like them ugly, and with good feelings.
I am sure your not ugly like you say your are. Trust me theres alot of beautiful girls out there that might want you. I would'nt mind dating a ugly guy, if he is a great guy and respects me
good luck iam sure youll find your true love.
2006-08-20 04:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by SMILEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have plenty of money you can find a beautiful girl. Your question did not state what country you are in. If you are in. You could try a mail-order-bride site like loveme.com. They have a lot of success bringing beautiful women over for average looking men. For a price.
Good luck in your quest for love.
2006-08-20 04:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r wrong honey. girls may like handsome guys but they love guys who are honest and simple and believe in inner beauty.don' think that love has anything to do with outer apperance.don't dream to have beautiful girls but dream that u should have a girl with beautiful heart.
anyway all the best .
2006-08-20 04:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋