guys i have lied a lot of times to my gf but that was before and now that i love her very much i want to tell her everything of my past but i fear that it might lead to break up so pls suggest me what should i do
2006-08-20 04:00:25 · 20 answers · asked by sunny_hot_25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya it will lead to break up...
2006-08-20 04:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what i understand about guys is that they usually lie so as to either avoid a fight or because they are scared that their partner might leave them. But the truth is that a girl would really appreciate her partner being truthful to her.You just got to wait for the right moment to tell her whatever you want and remember to make her feel special through out your conversation.make sure you are looking into her eyes and do say that from now you would like to be 100% honest to her as you love her more and more each day!
2006-08-20 04:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend from journey. i'm bipolar. Lay some floor regulations that are honestly needed: the stealing the cost of her temper swings and the mendacity you will not assume this from all and sundry who became into no longer biploar and he or she would have the ability to comprehend that she is doing those issues... as fro being observed it has no longer something to do including your concern. Then attempt and make some new acquaintances and if she doesn;t bypass alongside including your desires ( which i think no longer) then have a break from one yet another yet tell her relatives and yours that it somewhat is what you have completed so as that they might assist you with the selections. while you're having a dating with a bipolar individual you will possibly desire to be honestly honest and not go through in silence! additionally get her to ascertain her meds as she might desire to have lots greater administration than this!
2016-10-02 07:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i think it's best if you straight up tell your gf. it's worse if she finds out about the lies and you dont tell her, rather then coming out with the truth in the first place.
just tell her, but make sure she's ready to handle all of the truth, and make sure she knows you love her very much and dont want the relationship to end because of this. =]
good luck
2006-08-20 12:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by dayjr3amer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take the advice of the 12-step program the one that says something like make amends EXCEPT when in will hurt you or someone else. What GOOD could possiblity come from telling. oh yeah and I think Citizen justs wants your girl.
2006-08-20 04:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really regret your past and want to change ...my opinion is to put your past behind you.
Sometimes, not revealing the past is better for a relationship but you must truely repent.
But if you feel that it is a heavy mental burden to carry by not revealing to her, then go ahead and ask for forgiveness.
2006-08-20 04:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what you lied about if its those little stupid things like a jhave a black belt just tell her you were trying to impress her but you love her now so much if its sumthing huge dont bother and if you do brake up with her tell her all the huge things
2006-08-20 04:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by worried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confess
it may lead to a brake up but then she will realize that you loved her very much and thats when she might feel bad that she broke up with you
*well ya*
<3
2006-08-20 04:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by ballet_tigger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up. Will telling her these things make her life better, or yours? I say just be honest from now on and keep the confession for a priest or therapist.
2006-08-20 04:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell everything to her in this way you will come to know that this is really love or just a attraction.because if she really love you she will understand you and the reason why you lied to her.
2006-08-23 23:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by deepali s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have started ur relationship with a lie u must have pity on ur own doings
go ahead and tell her the truth and insist on her to take a decision on ur side if ur love is true now....
rest depends on her what decision she takes
best of luck...
regards.....
2006-08-20 06:26:16 · answer #11 · answered by prasun s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋