Family & Relationships - 18 August 2006

2006-08-18 20:53:15 · 6 answers · asked by anantoaushim 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18 years old, My husband and i just had a big fight because i want to go to college and live in a dorm room he doesn't want me to. he wants me to get an apartment instead something that we cannot afford. am I wrong? What should I do?

2006-08-18 20:51:33 · 29 answers · asked by carissa t 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

looking for just about anything

2006-08-18 20:50:31 · 1 answers · asked by Jazz Q 2 in Friends

We all have fun before marriage. Lot's of dating followed be sex with lots of guys. Why we should not do it after getting married? And if both the husband and wife agree on this, what's the harm?

Sex is basically having fun. As we can watch movies or have a coffee, we can have sex. The basic concept is same - To have good time. One may claim, 'it's not exactly same, as there are 'risks' in having sex'. Were there not any before marriage?

I feel that monogamy after marriage is quite hyppocratic, when all us are ok with it before. What is the basic reason for this concept of monogamy by the way? I mean I can have a family, very well look after it, and still have sex with other friends. and so can my husband.

So still is it wrong??

2006-08-18 20:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by Maddy4You 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok..its about ma friend...she 21 and she had neva had sex b4...bt she has a bf...her bf asked her to have sex with him...they did it for just some minutes and she came out screaming....she said she was not ready that her bf penis was too large...now shes afraid that she has lost her virginity to him....bt she also said since she did not bleed and the sex dint take plac for upto 2 mins...she is still a virgin..bt i said no
so.. am i wrong or is she wrong?

2006-08-18 20:50:02 · 10 answers · asked by TO BE CONTINUED.... 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 20:49:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this girl i like we started flirting with each other( i was under the impresion if your single and ready for a r/ship you flirt back to let the other person know your available for dates) so after weeks of hints and flirts i said thats it im going to ask her out so i did but she says oh sorry but im already taken. so whats the deal with that after all that cat and mouse i get the cold shoulder whats up with that

2006-08-18 20:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by steven d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 20:49:12 · 9 answers · asked by bossdiva_34 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She just walked right in. She didnt even knock.She turned around mumbling somthing in spanish.

2006-08-18 20:47:50 · 19 answers · asked by lukezzzzzz 1 in Singles & Dating

how can be sure that the relationship is being lasted?..

2006-08-18 20:47:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 20:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Friends

2006-08-18 20:46:01 · 40 answers · asked by robert c 1 in Family

i mean dating and marry him/her if possible

2006-08-18 20:45:39 · 10 answers · asked by Duc Tony 3 in Singles & Dating

Why cant ppl be together just with an understanding? No bonds in the form of marriage. No commitments. You can break up whenever you want without much fuss. Isnt it exciting?

2006-08-18 20:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by Ramanathan RV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to me he's fine i want to kow y'all opinion.

2006-08-18 20:44:42 · 20 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Friends

He came to my house sat down and started crying n shaking really bad saying hes scared he doesnt feel the same about me but also scared of losing me he said he loves me so much but he then asked me weather i could see us together in 20 yrs time i said yeh and he freaked out even more holding me crying saying well why cant i babe why cant i im so scared, i ran out crying didnt know what to do feel like my world has come crashing down on me then i hear from my parents that a week before he was asking them how they managed to survived when they first got there own house cause he wanted us to live togther but wanted to make sure we had enough money and that i didnt see any of this coming im so confused whats wrong with him? is he scared? what do i do? :( please help any advice would be good thanks alot xmelx

2006-08-18 20:44:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

meaning my wife and infant

2006-08-18 20:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by IMPACT 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When i met this guy it was kind of love at first sight for me we were together for over 1yr and then broke-up. I tried to go on with my life by going out and dating wich at the time it seem to work but for some reason he always somehow would come back into my life. We never got back together but we would still see each other by this I mean dinner and of course sex. On and off we saw each other for over 4 years I always hanged on because I loved him but then I found out that he married his ex while he still saw me on the side I told his wife and of course to me his dead.
But now Im having serious issues with man I feel like they are all liars and just cannot get back into the dating thing again.I feel completely betrayed,discusted,depressed and lonely...

2006-08-18 20:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 21 years old, doesn't have a job, abuses my mom, my dad and me physically, mentally and emotionally everyday...the problem is he is diognosed with depression and my parents are stuck in this circle and don't know wether they should call the police or not or send him to a mental health hospital. my brother is seeing a psychiatrist and does take pills for his depression but the psychiatrists and the doctors don't seem to undertsand how bad he actually treats allof us. It's very bad!!! i don;t know what to do because i cant take it anymore with the abuse and his selfishnes and lazyness and crazyness. I think anyone in his situation would be deprressed but i dont think that is an excuse to abuse your family like theyr are worthless road kill. I don't know what to do!! please help!

2006-08-18 20:43:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When i met this guy it was kind of love at first sight for me we were together for over 1yr and then broke-up. I tried to go on with my life by going out and dating wich at the time it seem to work but for some reason he always somehow would come back into my life. We never got back together but we would still see each other by this I mean dinner and of course sex. On and off we saw each other for over 4 years I always hanged on because I loved him but then I found out that he married his ex while he still saw me on the side I told his wife and of course to me his dead.
But now Im having serious issues with man I feel like they are all liars and just cannot get back into the dating thing again.I feel completely betrayed,discusted,depressed and lonely...

2006-08-18 20:43:20 · 6 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-18 20:40:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey yeah well he took sleeping pills, and left me up all alone so I was bored, and lonely since he went to bed, and left me to stay awake by myself. So like I said I was bored and decided to carve my name into is chest with an exacto knife. So when he woke up he was so pissed off about it. He's still mad about it. What can I do to make things better with him?

2006-08-18 20:39:52 · 31 answers · asked by Wild and Sexy Cassie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

heres the deal. a friend of mine, pretty close,and i have been hanging out a lot the last few days. Hes 31, im 18, and tonight he asked me if i wanted to be **** buddies. i said i dunno (because im a VERY insecure person). later we get alone and he starts to tell me how awesome i am and he really likes me but hes scared because of the age differance and hes scared that basically he would fall in love with me.
I like the guy and i know hed be good n bed. But im so scared there is going to be something about me (especially thats physical and i know that sounds superfical but its the truth) that he doesnt like and things would be awkard everytime we're at the same place at the same time. At the end of the night he kissed me, and i stopped him and said that i had to think about it. we said our goodbyes and left. now im wondering, should i go for it?

2006-08-18 20:38:57 · 17 answers · asked by shortiesmalls8706 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have really really bad sex with a man or woman that you love with all your heart and soul? Or would you rather have the most amazing sex you have ever had in your entire life with the person you hated the most?

2006-08-18 20:37:53 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 20:37:45 · 18 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

When i met this guy it was kind of love at first sight for me we were together for over 1yr and then broke-up. I tried to go on with my life by going out and dating wich at the time it seem to work but for some reason he always somehow would come back into my life. We never got back together but we would still see each other by this I mean dinner and of course sex. On and off we saw each other for over 4 years I always hanged on because I loved him but then I found out that he married his ex while he still saw me on the side I told his wife and of course to me his dead.
But now Im having serious issues with man I feel like they are all liars and just cannot get back into the dating thing again.I feel completely betrayed,discusted,depressed and lonely...

2006-08-18 20:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do all of u think of that i love the fact that they are still home they are really good boys.

2006-08-18 20:37:13 · 23 answers · asked by nvvlewis 3 in Family

2006-08-18 20:37:02 · 2 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

and have a good time, drink, talk to people in real life. maybe you wouldn't be sooo damn bitter. Life is so only what you make of it, I am sorry if I offended you, but it was all in fun. (and i give great bj, I just got tired of giving them to him ) lmao rotflmao

2006-08-18 20:36:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My maid of honour has stressed me out from the begining by saying rude comments and not being there for me. She threw me a nice shower but at the end of the shower ended up fighting with some of the bridesmaids. Then she insisted on telling everyone how much she spent on the shower and that my wedding has done nothing but stress her out. So now she has decided that she won't be going along for my bachlorette party because she doesn't care for the other girls. I asked her to please just get along with them for one night just for me and that it means alot to me if she attended. She then told me No and that she feels like she is planning a High School prom. Everything out of her mouth is negative. All my bridesmaids,( which there are alot) seem to all get along. My maid of honour is the problem. Should i be mad at her for not attending the bachlorette party. It is something i will never forget! I have so much anger towards her now that i don't ever want to speak to her again. Am i wrong?

2006-08-18 20:35:55 · 30 answers · asked by millington550 1 in Weddings