When i met this guy it was kind of love at first sight for me we were together for over 1yr and then broke-up. I tried to go on with my life by going out and dating wich at the time it seem to work but for some reason he always somehow would come back into my life. We never got back together but we would still see each other by this I mean dinner and of course sex. On and off we saw each other for over 4 years I always hanged on because I loved him but then I found out that he married his ex while he still saw me on the side I told his wife and of course to me his dead.
But now Im having serious issues with man I feel like they are all liars and just cannot get back into the dating thing again.I feel completely betrayed,discusted,depressed and lonely...
2006-08-18 20:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im sorry about your pain, that must be very difficult. I think everyone has experienced loss and pain in some form of infatuation or love. The best thing I can suggest is to really allow yourself to purge it out of your system. Try to set up just a couple hours in a day to drain it all out. Look at pictures, listen to songs, write poetry, etc...cry and let it all out, but just in this time frame. Then after the time is up, listen to upbeat music, try something new, hang out with family or meet some new people, pamper yourself. You will find that as the days go by you will need less and less time to purdge it out of your system...and soon you wont need it at all. Keep a journal to show yourself your progress too. Take care and good luck!
2006-08-18 21:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ice G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Sorry to hear about your heartache. Sounds like you are experiencing some very normal grieving. If you truly want to move on there are some great books out there such as "How to Survive the Loss of a Love", "Don't bet on the Prince" and "He's just not that into you". These are fabulous books that can help you get over the hump of recovery. All feelings are ok. and it's natural to doubt your worth, however you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.
2006-08-19 03:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by JT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want my advice well theres this guy i love the only thing is we cant be together anymore his mom found out hes way to old for me i cant get over him so im tryin to get over him by dating my X and my X is a sweety but i no its hard but yesterday i was takling about that guy and i saw a rock in the shape of a heart and i strted cryin i love that man but i cant be with him cuz i love him enough not to send him to jail its gonna be hard getting over him i no and now u feel all the guys will cheet on u ive been cheated on like 6 or 7 times but not by the guy im in love with just find a sweet guy and dont fall in love at first sight make sure hes worth something does he have a job mostly make sure he care for u more that goin to strip clubs with his buddies us girls no wats happenin at those strip clubs just dont fall in love give it 4 months or longer dont wait on him hand and foot and im saying that guy that did that to u will pay somehow he used u and he nos ur weekness he nos u love him and u cant let him go forget about him its hard just say u cheated u lied u sorry *** ***** get away from me its never gonna happen again do u tghink i should stay with that guy i was talking about is it worth the risk
2006-08-19 03:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by chasi m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets start off by saying you started off too fast
you should not have done that in and out thing you were letting him use you.
Sometimes people have a hard time letting go but I know it was hard when you find out he was married
but all man are not like that
I don't know if man do this to you all the time but that is how people learn you fall off and get back up.
look baby girl u seem to be a very loving girl and don't let one man turn your heart cold.
you have a hole lot to give so get back out there don't jump in just get your feet a little wet ..
and remember if you let people use your ink make sure they don't leave you with out ink to use
keep your head up
2006-08-19 03:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You used the word loved. Past tense. You are heading in the right direction!
2006-08-19 03:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tell it like it is 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There is one thing in life that is not hard for me to do and that is as soon as i kiss the lips of another I'm going to forget all about you."(Marchall Tucker) By the way , don't love suk.
2006-08-19 03:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by yacheckoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont blame all the men for this one who went sour. of coarse he had a special place in your heart but things go bad sometimes. you need to dust yourself off and try again. you can do it, dont let a bad relationship dictate your love life.
2006-08-19 03:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, have sex with another guy. Works for me all the time. Think of all the negativity that he brought into your life. F*CK HIM!!!!! Easy as that!!!!!!!
2006-08-19 03:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋