When i met this guy it was kind of love at first sight for me we were together for over 1yr and then broke-up. I tried to go on with my life by going out and dating wich at the time it seem to work but for some reason he always somehow would come back into my life. We never got back together but we would still see each other by this I mean dinner and of course sex. On and off we saw each other for over 4 years I always hanged on because I loved him but then I found out that he married his ex while he still saw me on the side I told his wife and of course to me his dead.
But now Im having serious issues with man I feel like they are all liars and just cannot get back into the dating thing again.I feel completely betrayed,discusted,depressed and lonely...
2006-08-18 20:43:20 · 6 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was in love before I met my husband. However for me it wasn't love at first sight, but it grew instead over time. I dated this person for close to five years when we suddenly broke up. I was shocked and went through severe depression. We had gone everywhere together and experienced so much. He was my best friend and I thought we were going to get married. We had vacationed together in Italy, Paris and Canada. As I said, when we broke up suddenly, for reasons I still don't understand, I went through a severe depression and found it and still find it difficult to trust anyone else. I met a person, however, after quite a bit of searching who is much better than him in all departments. Don't get too depressed because there is someone out there for you. I hate to tell you this and I know you don't want to hear it, but it kind of sounds like you were being used. Such an unhealthy relationship can never be good for you. In the future should you get involved with anyone else, get out or at least threaten to at the first sign of disrespect.
2006-08-18 20:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by LifeMatrix2012 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Two things...
Time and Rebound, sorry... it's true. I know the pain you are feeling, I have had it too. Just take your time before giving your heart away again. A little positive attention never hurts when you are left to feel like a doormat, get out and have some fun with your friends. Don't let one loser ruin your outlook on love or men. Nice guys do exist!!
2006-08-19 03:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2006-08-19 03:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Marlene 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah , ive been through it myself..and oh how hard it is...i feel for you truly i do..but what hits the hardest is him comming back to you right ?when all goes wrong and nothing goes right for him.. he thinks your always gonna be there as mine did until he married this trick and had a kid with her and thought i had a revolving door that in which i truly had to close in his face.after i did this and i screamed on him and i called it quits with him and after all the greif he put me through and him getting married behind my back.and all the hurt i went through he..finally 12 yrs later tells me that he loves me and always loved me..he hurt me more then any man could ever and still till this day it really hurts when you love some one for soo long and they do this to you its tramatizing i know.i loved him something terrible and still do my heart hurts for him and will...always!!
2006-08-19 04:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is not the same, try again.
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2006-08-19 03:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by nique2107 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have love for yourself before all others! =) I hope you feel better!
2006-08-19 03:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋