heres the deal. a friend of mine, pretty close,and i have been hanging out a lot the last few days. Hes 31, im 18, and tonight he asked me if i wanted to be **** buddies. i said i dunno (because im a VERY insecure person). later we get alone and he starts to tell me how awesome i am and he really likes me but hes scared because of the age differance and hes scared that basically he would fall in love with me.
I like the guy and i know hed be good n bed. But im so scared there is going to be something about me (especially thats physical and i know that sounds superfical but its the truth) that he doesnt like and things would be awkard everytime we're at the same place at the same time. At the end of the night he kissed me, and i stopped him and said that i had to think about it. we said our goodbyes and left. now im wondering, should i go for it?
2006-08-18 20:38:57 · 17 answers · asked by shortiesmalls8706 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think so, Love has no age to me
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2006-08-18 20:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by nique2107 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky question here.
Ever think he just wants to have sex with you and you'll never hear from him again? Does he have a sexual disease that you may catch?
Age is just a number, and if you want to do it then go ahead. But take plenty of caution.
Sometimes guys can be shady, I know I am a guy.
Not that I am shady, but I have been down that road before.
Imet a young lady online, and we hung out for months. We went to bars, movies and parties together. Then we had intercourse, and it was great. When we met, she showed me ID that she was 21, turned out that it was a fake. She was only 15, I was 35. It ended there because she was trying to use the old black mail against me. So be very careful.
I would say no, just be friends.
2006-08-18 20:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by John M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy will tell you whatever you want to hear to get some. It's up to you to determine if he is worth it, how will you feel after if he quits talking to you? Or how do you feel about being a piece of a$$. If you are sleeping with a guy I would hope you would be in love, and he should treat you like a princess. You are better than that.
2006-08-18 20:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scary thing is he is attracted to an 18 year old at 31. That is scary because when you are 31 he may still be attracted to an 18 year old. happiness has no age yet bad decisions can be REALLY hard to fix. Be careful. I feel for you.
2006-08-18 20:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tell it like it is 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to me he doesnt sound like he wants love commitment to me he just wants some fun and personally myself i wouldnt do it cause if ya start letting your emotions get invovled you will end up getting hurt and wishing you never did it in the first place but its your life so make the right choice for you
2006-08-18 20:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, "how much do YOU want him"?
If you want to, then don't worry about him not liking anything about you. Just enjoy each other.
But do know this... he is not going to be anything more than a **** buddy. If you can't live with that, don't do anything that might make you an emotional wreck.
2006-08-18 21:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tuna-San 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 1st instinct says no then it's probably not a good idea! Listen to your self! you already know the answer!
2006-08-18 20:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bunnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the moment he said f buddy thats when you should have stopped him and never see his sorry *** again .Run fast run far but run . Just get on with your life without that crap you dont need it !
2006-08-18 20:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be **** buddies have a relationship or nothing your worth more than that. don't settle for anything less than a commitment.
2006-08-18 20:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, these guys will say anything to get in your pants. at your age you can have anyone you want, so don't give it away to just anyone hes too old for you anyway.
2006-08-18 20:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by letgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋