Family & Relationships - 18 August 2006

I have just been placed in charge of decorating the vehicle the bride and groom are driving away in... on my list of things to buy I have shoe polish and confetti... what else should I get???

2006-08-18 07:48:48 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Ty ♥ 2 in Weddings

When I met my new wife..she did everything in her power to establish a relationship not only with me and my son but had my x over on numerous occssions for breakfast and dinner. This she did so my ex could feel secure about our child being around her by them getting to know each other. My wife also invited my ex to holiday events with my family so that our son not be deprived of any one parent being for holiday events. My wife went above and beyond to make a good and pleasant atmosphere for all of us to partake in this childs world...but my ex always caused disrespectful interrutions at these family gatherings and great discomfort to all our guests. Finally she was asked by me, not my wife, to opt out of our family gatherings. It has been difficult because my ex-wife has never me and felt burdened with our son because he was he result of her ploy for a green card / to get citizenship in the country. She has never wanted to be a mother until my new wife came along..So what do I do?

2006-08-18 07:47:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The first three have stretched vagina from children, no good.

2006-08-18 07:47:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-18 07:47:18 · 10 answers · asked by darrenfanelli 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Most women I have either been romantically involved with or have known in one way or another have been absolutely tweaked, mentally. Most are incapable of undergoing stress without feeling the need to ***** (or, "discuss their feelings", as they call it). Which leads to me not giving a sh!t.

Don't get me wrong, expressing yourself and dealing with stress by talking is one thing, but b!tching about how "X said Y to me today, and it made me upset" is ridiculous, honestly, nobody cares. Somebody made you upset? I mean, you weren't even MAD? Yay.

2006-08-18 07:47:09 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My Mommy's boyfriend who I don't like is moving in with us this weekend. My Mommy knows I HATE him with all my heart. He beat her up something awful the other day. Put a real WWF Smackdown on her. I intervened, but backed down after he came at me with a cast iron skillet. I left, and when I returned, they were canoodling on the sofa on the front porch. She said he was going to take her to the $1 store on the shopping spree of her dreams tomorrow. She was real giddy and giggly. Well, this afternoon, Mommy was making me a fried balogna sandwich, and she put it in front of me, and her boyfriend walked by and grabbed it and laughed as he walked away eating it. I ran after him and kicked him really hard in the back. Well, he fell face forward and told me to "git out." My Mommy stood behind him nodding and acting all big and bad. I tried to tell her, it's him, NOT ME! I'm 31, and I have nowhere to go, no job, and I'm scared! How can I convince my Mommy to let me stay???? HELP!!!!

2006-08-18 07:46:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in your opinion is it normal to hurt sometimes in a relationship?

2006-08-18 07:46:16 · 14 answers · asked by monkeytail_77 4 in Singles & Dating

the man who raped your wife or kid, would you take it?

2006-08-18 07:45:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

have "sexual relations" he barely lasts longer than 5 minutes before he, uh.... shoots. No matter what form of relations it is, oral or otherwise. How can I make him last longer so that I get some enjoyment out of the act too?

2006-08-18 07:45:09 · 24 answers · asked by TheGuru 5 in Singles & Dating

Why is there like a lot of porn! I'm like 12 and all i see is naked women! That grosses me out that all men want to do is look at our privates!

2006-08-18 07:44:49 · 4 answers · asked by priestrada 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

lol just a question

2006-08-18 07:43:48 · 36 answers · asked by staryeyes96 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband says he feels like we've been married 25 years and it has only been 10 months. He feels all the spark of the newly married couple is gone already and it was too quick. For some reason he believes it should last a couple years. What do I do? We both love eachother very much...and as far as I can tell nothing has really changed.
The bedroom is not the biggest issue...we do have different sex drives, but we compromise on that. It's mostly just everyday stuff. He is stressed, went back to college, money has been a little tight, but he says he doesn't know what bothers him, he can't put his finger on it. He wished he could figure it out. He says it might not be all me, he just looks at other couples and sees something we don't have which I don't even know if we ever were exactly like that. I'm just afraid if he feels our marriage is boring without all that newness he will eventually want to leave! We are bored with our small city and w/limited income we can't afford much!

2006-08-18 07:43:48 · 28 answers · asked by frustrated 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday I recieved a e-mail from a hospital saying that they admited a Sharlom Terry who only had my yahoo address and a passport to go on to contact a next of kin. They say she needs a blood transfusion, and want me to send money. Also asked that I sign one of her blank checks. I am truly concerned as I've not heard from her since the 14th, and usually hear from her daily. The money detail makes me think that this is a scam. Can someone find a way to contact her family to see if she's alright?

2006-08-18 07:42:49 · 11 answers · asked by prsplayercstm24 1 in Family

Any clues on how to deal with my husband's fears. He is obsessed with 1. Viruses (nearly everyone who comes to the house has a "virus". 2. Drafts/cold air causing aches in his joints (closes every door and window). 3. Catholicism - nearly every conversation turns to this subject. Warning people about the fact that it is evil. Thanks, M.

2006-08-18 07:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by Marceau 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-18 07:41:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-18 07:41:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or help with the kids or decorating he just lets me do it all do you think this is acceptable behaviour or am i to soft what should i do please help

2006-08-18 07:41:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seeing someone for a period of time. We seem to be very compatible, and agreeable on the major topics and a wide variety of others. How long before you being to consider commitment?

2006-08-18 07:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by rmdybles30 3 in Singles & Dating

happens will i ever get her back.

2006-08-18 07:40:05 · 24 answers · asked by james w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-18 07:39:36 · 13 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I have some people who talk to me me and one girl who as done kinda a love nip. But I think she dating and she is cute and everything but I like other girls more. please give me some real advise.

2006-08-18 07:38:55 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I finally ate some of her home made baked goods. Incredible cinnamon roll. Now I'm worried about my weight even more. Should I tell my wife who eats right and exercises a lot?

2006-08-18 07:38:49 · 38 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-18 07:38:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got discovered at 19,a model its hard for me to meet anyone without them saying how beautiful i am,its hard to find guy to settle with,have friends,even my aunt who saw me after years recently went into raptures(im not vain or shallow)but i would love someone to love me as person without my looks how?again im not boasting,vain,shallow.I know 1 person who loved me for who i was before at times i feel bad about it whenever i meet any person they say im beautiful even without talking to me.Please tell me what to do.

2006-08-18 07:37:47 · 26 answers · asked by abeautyqueenz@gmail.com 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when I realized that my mom favoured my three younger siblings than she did my brother and I, I guess that's because she married their father, my older brother G never met his father when he was 15 and I cannot tell you what my dad looks like. We were always the black sheeps in the family. We were always beaten or left outside to sleep. My mom gave up on my brother J, and expects me to do the same, something I cannot do. So should I call her back or should I just walk away and never look back?

2006-08-18 07:37:44 · 18 answers · asked by Sweetwater 1 in Family

If one has alligations, accusations ,infereces or whatever directed at them and they become defensive angry or sad, does that mean they are guilty or just sensitive or even hypersensetive to false accusations

2006-08-18 07:37:15 · 5 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy and I are going out tomorrow for the first time. We met 8 years ago through my ex friend. (He is her ex boyfriend). I asked him how much I should bring and he wants to pay.. Should I insist on paying my way or let him be the gentleman he is and let him pay?

2006-08-18 07:36:50 · 38 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Singles & Dating

okay, i like this boi and i kno that he likes me 2, he even knos that i like him and yet go out with someone else. What does this mean?

2006-08-18 07:36:26 · 16 answers · asked by Mona lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

No doubts that men heartily love women. However, numerous opinion polls reveal that there are ten basic factors with females that strongly irritate men.

1. Men do not like women pretending they are chaste. Men believe that women should stay themselves and give up every attempt to seem better. Indeed, women these days are not restricted in entertaining themselves and can enjoy life to the utmost, just exactly the way that men do.

2. Men hate it when their women criticize other females. This is a proven fact that women often treat other women as rivals. But remember that a woman will gain no popularity with men if she continuously criticizes other women’s dresses, shoes and handbags and also their compatibility with each other. Men actually do not care very much if their women wear fashionable dresses or not, have stylish coiffure or not.

3. Women’s jealousy exasperates men. This is absolute nonsense that jealousy revives relationship. The jealousy lifestyle can break even the strongest relationship. Jealousy appears when someone in a couple does not trust his partner. Remember that trust is the basis of your relationship.

4. Men also do not like to be treated as an emotional support. They get irritated when women always demand caresses and hugs, when women ask to call them special. Men do not like diffident women; they say it is even worse than self-confident and independent women.

5. It is no good for women to employ the speech code in relations with men. When women employ the ‘What are you thinking about?’ speech code they thus hope to pump real feelings and emotions out of men. When a woman asks a man this sort of vague questions she expects to catch his unawares and learn what his real feelings toward her are.


6. Some women want all the spare time of their men to be devoted to them only. This is some sort of interference with men’s private life. At the worst, women start asking relatives and close friends what their men did or are doing at this particular moment. They also ransack men’s pockets and desk drawers in search of some evidence. Women must not behave like proprietresses.

7. This is incredible but women’s emotionality makes men absolutely mad. Unlike women, men are sure that broken nails or touching films are not a trouble at all. Males do not love their female partners burst into tears or fly into a rage on every trifle occasion.

8. It is universally known that men hate women’s never-ending shopping. Men generally believe that twenty four hours in a day are not enough for women to enjoy shopping, to have an opportunity to touch and try on everything they find. Men find it the most terrible ordeal when women insist that men must accompany them during shopping.


9. Women’s talkativeness is also irritating, men say. Women’s brain easily conceives every minute detail while men do not like to listen to nonessential details.

10. Women have a sure leverage to demonstrate their superiority over men. This is sex which is the most powerful weapon in the war between males and females. Women deprive their men of sex in an attempt to punish them. But the measure may in some cases have lamentable consequences for women.

When we consider the above bad habits of women closer, we can see they are not so terrible. Nobody is perfect, and partners should learn to compromise and be patient toward each other.

2006-08-18 07:36:17 · 14 answers · asked by answerhog 2 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, I can not stand kids of all ages. They yell, scream, ask ridiculous questions. When I am around them in a store or in public, I feel like I need to take meds of some sort just to tolerate them. I am 31. I've never been married and certainly do not have the desire to have any kids. As you can see, I simply do not have the patience to tolerate the little brats. I would never physically harm a child. I just DO NOT want to be around them. But it seems like everywhere I go, they are there. People just keep having them. When will it ever stop??? I feel like once you have kids, you come second. I'm sick of my family, friends, and society, looking at me like I am so sort of freak for not liking kids. If people choose to have them, fine!!! I don't. There are many people out there that have kids that shouldn't. At least I am not one of them! Is it so wrong to have other goals in life than to have children???

2006-08-18 07:35:51 · 50 answers · asked by Angrygirl5 3 in Family