or help with the kids or decorating he just lets me do it all do you think this is acceptable behaviour or am i to soft what should i do please help
2006-08-18 07:41:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dump him and get yourself a modern man who likes to help out..
2006-08-18 07:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear not all men are like that. Did he ever help out or are you just tired of it now. I would think if he had pride he would come home and serve his woman and do whatever he could to make her job easier around the house especially if you are raising the kids
2006-08-18 15:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by dagojoe64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man ,,the last time i looked,, but my wife works swing shift, i cook for the kids i clean house so my wife has a clean house to come home to, i do laundry but i don't fold, and give the kids bathsmm sorry you married such a loser ,but dont ever say all men are the same shame on you bad girl bad girl
2006-08-18 14:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually talked to him about this? Maybe he's attempted to do this in the past but you were very nitpicky and he gave up (happened when I lived with my ex boyfriend - I gave up cleaning, because everything I did, he'd do over...but I believe he had a mild case of OCD). Maybe you haven't actually told him you would like some help and expect him to just read your mind? Remember, that is not a male skill. I suggest talking with him about this before going ballistic.
2006-08-18 14:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how much he works. I think that they should get an hour or so to rest after work and then get off their tushes and at least entertain the kids so we can do some chores. On their days off they should be helping out after all moms don't get a day off why should dads.
2006-08-18 14:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Silly Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start sit around and falling asleep. When he complain, make him do half of the housework.
2006-08-18 14:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cook and clean do the alundry,we do it 50/50 shes a better cook though but i mow the lawn it all works out,if he doesnt help hes not worth the time and effort,i bet he can make a mess though huh?so make him clean it dont do his laundry,make him do it,if he wants to eat make him cook it,what is he 2 years old
2006-08-18 14:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by milf man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
98% of men dont help
its just a few who help around the house
i think they sometimes think they are kids and we are their mothers
take it easy and say ask him to help u in a loving way not fighting him and u will get him to help sometimes
2006-08-18 14:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only because they where raised to be that way, so if you have children make the boys work as well as the girls. Equality for all!
2006-08-18 14:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He not being fair to you tell him!! My hubby help me all the time and he love to cook too. You need to get some back bone and tell him he need to start helping you!! Good Luck''
2006-08-18 14:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
housework is not a very manly thing. we do things like take out the trash, kill bugs, animals, paint houses, clean pools, mow lawns, and drink beer. don't try to change us. we've this way for millions of years.
2006-08-18 14:48:56 · answer #11 · answered by chris j 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋