How do I get girls to noTICE ME AT SCHOOL WHEN i AM TO SHY TO TALK?

Question

Well I have some people who talk to me me and one girl who as done kinda a love nip. But I think she dating and she is cute and everything but I like other girls more. please give me some real advise.

Answer 1

You HAVE to stop being too shy to talk. How can anyone notice you if you don't speak. It's a lot more acceptable for girls to be shy because guys seem to like that. But most girls don't want a guy who's shy.

Answer 2

Awww.... (not trying to bring you done or make you feel young,,,, but that is sweet). Anyway, you really have to be more outgoing. How old are you? Because like in high school, it gets a lot easier for you to talk to girls or be more outgoing. I do like some guys that arent too crazy or outgoing and more shy because you know that they are nice and wont cheat on you. So, just keep being the sweet kid you are and soon enough every girl will want you. Trust me, I am one of those kind of girls.Don't worry, =]

Answer 3

Are you a good student? Try volunteering to tutor others. This is a good way to meet girls and other people as well. Since you are shy, what you are studying will be the ice breaker.
Since you have received a love nip, it seems you are already being noticed.

Answer 4

Protecting Your Options: Some men flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that possibility and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to a wider range of opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover. Conversely, if that doesn’t work out, you could meet someone who becomes a good friend instead and who knows someone that might be more compatible. Keep your options open.

Personal Care Is Essential: Make sure your hair is clean and your body and breath smell good. You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave. Take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people! Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else, have a little class.

Personality Goes a Long Way: Women love being around charismatic men because they appeal to their best feelings. Get yourself into the right attitude for flirting and go for it. It takes a little confidence but, then again, practice still makes perfect.

Please Her Without Being Pushy: When you buy a woman a drink, that is all you are buying. Don’t expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone a drink, watch when they receive it and smile, then look away--then looking back again to show your interest. Don’t try to get a woman drunk. Wouldn't it be preferable to have someone desire you genuinely instead of having their senses obliterated by alcohol?

Pick Her Out of a Crowd: Don’t make the rounds in a group of women. No woman wants to feel that she is considered to be second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You'll look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate. Even if you are, don’t show it.


Prefer Conversation First: Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her better before diving in for a date. This way, you will run less risk of being rejected when you do ask her.
Pick Your Compliments Carefully: Offer her only genuine compliments. There’s nothing worse than a guy who has a collection of bad lines (Excuse me, I seem to have lost my phone number and was wondering if I could borrow yours). Instead, notice something about her such as her beautiful nails, her bracelet, or the quality of her voice. Everyone has something about them worthy of a genuine compliment.

Physical Contact Should Be Limited: Keep your hands to yourself and respect their space. Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, whereas, others are horrified by it. Touching can be a lovely way to flirt, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and not touching, until you know each other better. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions, and then moving back a little to remove the threat.
Phone Her if She Gives You Her Number: If you ask for a phone number, be sure you use it. Flirting and meeting people is not about trophy hunting. It is about making a new connection and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call. If you asked for it, use it .
Practice, Practice, Practice: Be yourself. There’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it.

Answer 5

Get your friends to gather some ladies in a group and have a group talk hang out. Having others around to make you feel more comfortable is a good way to get girls to notice you and not let them know that you were too shy to talk to them. Having friends around to control the situation for you is a very good idea.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Hey man, u gotta stop being shy. Try to talk be more popular and chicks will follow u like u r a chick magnet.

Answer 8

Just try your best to talk to the other girls u like more than this girl likes u and than try to talk to the other girl that likes u and just have good conversations with all the girls!!!!!

Answer 9

Work on your shyness with self-help books or counseling. I broke out of my shyness with karoke in my 20s.

Tell the girl, "Look I'm kinda shy and don't do this often, but can I call you tonight?"

Answer 10

you gotta ta talk to ppl a little bit more than you do, try talkin to tha gurls you like. example: just a simple hey or waz up.
on the otha hand some gurls think shyness is sexy