have "sexual relations" he barely lasts longer than 5 minutes before he, uh.... shoots. No matter what form of relations it is, oral or otherwise. How can I make him last longer so that I get some enjoyment out of the act too?
2006-08-18 07:45:09 · 24 answers · asked by TheGuru 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, what u do is.... when ur ontop, and u feel like he's about to bust or he says sumthin or whatever, push it in deeper, faster.... trust meeh, he'll be up longer.... that and, when u do that, contract the muscles in your pelvis.... u'll have him yellin out yo name gurl!
2006-08-18 07:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by caramel_smackerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're not alone! I've been down this road before and the best thing I can suggest is try and make him prolong it; maybe a lot more foreplay to get YOU caught up to his speed. The thing is he's getting too excited with whatever it is you're doing to him - which some may think its a good thing, but in your case you want to be able to get some enjoyment out of it. When in doubt just tell him, don't be afraid of hurting his feelings, he's a big boy and he should be able to take this as something that will help you both. The more you avoid the issue the more you'll become resentful.
2006-08-18 15:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by cinnamon_latin_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously interested have him go get some viagra or cialis. It is not just for people who can't get it up. I am a pretty normal guy and I tried it just cause I like to experiment. I took a whole pill the first time 20mg and I pretty much couldn't finish. I take about a quarter of a pill now and I usually last at least an hour.
2006-08-22 15:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take some herbal vitamins or something:) A lot of guys do this and the answer to your question may vary cause what work for everyone eles may not work for your boyfriend but it doesn't hurt to try different things go to book store and get some ideas from a book re: Men and Sex
2006-08-25 15:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be something that he can't help something like a medical condition or something. Have patience with him or he may be just a 5 minute man. I would suggest renting movies together and watching them or you could try longer 4play treats like taking a bubble bath together or showers together to help him relax and get in the mood more maybe he just needs to relax. There are ways you just have to play with it until you find the one that fits you.
2006-08-18 15:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello TheGuru,
When I was a teen, I constantly had a hard on. Sex was so good that I very seldom lasted very long. So I learned how to please my ladies orally and they never complained about it again.
I would insist on him going down on you first. Get him into the habit of this, or you will never be happy in sex. Your boyfriend wants to please you, so you need to insist upon this.
Also have him wear a condom. That will deaden the sensations that makes him come too fast. Don't use those creams, because as they are deadening his sensations, they are also deadening yours too.
--Rick
2006-08-18 15:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't wear a condom then make him, and see if that helps. If he does and you still have this problem you could but a rubberband around him at the bottem and that should hold him for a while. If nothing else helps I would let him whack it off first then he should be able to hold off for a while.
2006-08-18 14:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect, but some guys are just minute men anyway. They get too excited, and they end up like Jim on American Pie.
2006-08-18 14:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does this start and stop thing. When he feels is coming, he just STOPS. He takes a minute, and then goes on. A lot of men suffer from this. If that doesn't work, have him take care of you before you ever start on him. Hope this helps!!
2006-08-18 14:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kalighe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step 1:
Find out what he really wants from you in bed.
Step 2:
Agree to do your best.
Step 3:
Ask him to reciprocate
Step 4:
You come first.
2006-08-18 14:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms work-takes sensation away-
be happy he is worked up for you-you still make him hott.
Once he gets to last longer you will start complaining it last to long and it hurts.
2006-08-18 14:54:01 · answer #11 · answered by baba booey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋