in your opinion is it normal to hurt sometimes in a relationship?
2006-08-18 07:46:16 · 14 answers · asked by monkeytail_77 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. you're inevitably bound to hurt in a relationship. that's just what comes with a partnership- things get said or done that may have hurtful side effects. this is like asking, is it normal to hurt in life. of course!
the thing with relationships is HOW you go about resolving the issues, if at all. communication is of utmost importance, not just talking at eachother but really trying to understand and be understood. it's a union, a synergy. you are separate entities with separate experiences and perceptions, so you can't always be on the same page. what you do have is a dedication to trying to figure things out together. like al green says "loving you whether times or good or bad, happy or sad (let's stay together)". we hurt, and then if we're lucky we grow, together.
this does not excuse, however, an abusive relationship. if someone is abusive, either mentally, emotionally, or physically, then no it is not normal and you need to leave.
always stay true to yourself, love yourself unconditionally, otherwise you will wind up resenting your lover once you've sacrificed too much and aren't being reciprocated.
2006-08-18 08:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by juniper_sativa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the feeling and sometimes i break the relationship when its too much. Especially if he keeps hurting me.
2006-08-18 07:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ajay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to an extent, but if it's more hurt than pleasure, save yourself from the drama and get out. Think about it being like your friendships, would you put up with the bullcrap all the time, or distance yourself until the friendship can bring something to your table again??
2006-08-18 07:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by kristin h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have been accused of being a wannabe in loads of words. That individual is now long previous and that i'm nevertheless here, wannabein'. all people can say something, it is walkin' the communicate it is the puddin', it is the genuine data of who's what.
2016-10-02 06:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by panther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it normal to hurt sometimes but not all the time
2006-08-18 07:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. You are two different people that are trying to come together in a relatioship. It is bound to hurt sometimes.
2006-08-18 07:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~College Lovin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body experiences it sometime on a nother.
2006-08-18 07:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by tonya86_chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah * hands up* it always does.
HURT comes free with this all LOVE thing
2006-08-18 07:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Blue_Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.... well, its always happened to meeh... its happening rite now actually.... u wonder what he's doing, why he acts all like he aint got no feelings towards you even tho a few fone calls ago he said he loved you.... something like that.... it unexplainable dear.... i have that same question, i just dont feel like asking it....
2006-08-18 09:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by caramel_smackerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have experienced love hurts
2006-08-18 07:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by snehal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋