My ex-boyfriend and I broke up in a fiasco situation about 7 months ago. He was younger than I, and I was very upset with him for a wide variety of reasons. The thing is, we really were in love and had amazing chemistry, but his family situation and his habit of running away from conflict was unbelieveable. He has a lot of problems--a mom whose husband who was really there for her who at one point tried to commit suicide, a father who had another secret relationship outside the family, and also a relationship between mom and sis that was almost without boundaries, very codependant. As a result, lots of unhealthy issues with family obligation, guilt, etc., etc. It was a BIG mess, and I was sick of it. Also, it was long-distance, and I mean 3,000 miles long. Problem is, I miss him. We had a very special connection, and unheard-of sex. So on a whim, I called him, and it turns out he wants to talk. But now that the door is open again, I am freaking out about the old problems coming back.
2006-08-15
18:13:37
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