This guy that I like asked me to his formal and he says we are just friends but i dont know if i took it the wrong way and thought that he may have liked me. At one stage he said he liked me, but he says he only wants to be friends. But asking me must mean I am kinda special to him....right??? I'm confused as to what he wants.
2006-08-15 18:05:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That or it's an easy score for him or that you're a "trophy" date!
2006-08-15 18:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to find out is to go to formal with him. If you both have a great time keep up the contact, go out on dates, hang out more and you will see. If you are able to hang out a lot more after formal, good chance he likes you. If he ignores you at or after formal, then he doesn't like you. This is my experience from being a guy and seeing other guys do this
2006-08-16 01:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by MikeMillions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahhahahaha
He might not like you (but going with a girl is better than not going at all).
He might like you but not want to scare you off by saying he likes you (personally when I like a girl I don't tell her explicitly).
He might be on the fence as to whether he wants to pursue you or not.
Just try flirting with him a little and see how he reacts. He may flirt back or he may not be interested. Let me tell you, if he ain't interested then he is not a part of your romantic life. That means at the formal if you meet someone else you like or whatever that you can do whatever.
Also realize that if he drinks at all at your formal and hooks up with you that when he sobers up he may regret the decision if he soberly isn't interested in you.
Hope that makes sense.
2006-08-16 01:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by d.anconia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a girlfriend?If yes then she probably cancelled on the last moment & he was left with u.If no & he has previously mentioned to you that he likes u as a friend maybe its true & he has asked you out cos there was no one around you were 'best from the rest' etc.or maybe he really wants to take friendship to another level. Go prepared but dont expect anything. Have a good time & show him how wonderful u r & maybe things turn out in your favour.
2006-08-16 01:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by Heista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right in thinking that you are special to him. Asking you to his formal is a very big deal. Have you thought that he told you he only wants to be friends so you will feel safer? He doesn't want you to think he only has ideas about wanting to make out with you or whatever. Go with him and be your own sweet self. If he wants you to be his girl, he will let you know.
2006-08-16 01:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, he likes you but it doesn't mean a guy invited you to something would mean that he does like you being more than a friend. Maybe, he finds you like really nice and considers you as his best friend. Don't be confused just learn to enjoy being with him who treats you special in many ways.
2006-08-16 01:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just that he needs time to know more abt u..
this situation is like....
its always safe to ask a girl(whom u are meeting for the first time) for a coffe, but not lunch and dinner..
its like, if u both get along, then u can have lunch or dinner together..
and if its coffee/tea...at the max it will take 15mins to sit and talk..and if things dont go well..u can always leave after the tea/coffee...
2006-08-16 02:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by J i t h i n . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might want to see how you two get along at his formal and it may go forward from there so good luck and have fun.
2006-08-16 01:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by tjanet23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Are you his first choice? Is he straight?
Or maybe he really likes you but he's just afraid you don't feel the same way. Its a classic defense mechanism.
2006-08-16 01:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants to take you in order to annoy another girl. or why does he not have someone special, is he an idiot, maybe tell him no, see what he says then, good luck
2006-08-16 01:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u hv anything to do else rather than fallin in love with every other guy........ u r in school why the hell do u want to soak in such a relationship already
2006-08-16 01:50:33 · answer #11 · answered by rishi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋