He is to much in my business and i am already 26 years old with 3 kids what would you do.
2006-08-15 18:16:00 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Girlfriend, love your father, but love him from a distance. That's all you can do. He will never change, and he is attempting to father you as if you are 2 years old, and exert influence over you now that it is too little too late. But, he is going about it the wrong way, especially since you are a grown woman, with your own thoughts, opinions and values and doing quite well.
2006-08-15 18:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never any guarantee that we will like our parents, even when we have grown up in their care. Parents owe a responsibility to their offspring not the offspring to the parents. If it is all too much for you ask this man, who through a sexual act 26/27 years ago fathered you, but has done no more than that, to take however many steps backwards so that you once again feel comfortable with your life.
2006-08-16 01:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i just met my father almost 6 years ago, didnt know him for 18 years of my life and when i finally met him the first thing he told me was he hated me but i still moved to where he was at and tryed to get to know him but he just treats me like crap and hes always in my bussiness he has even kicked in my door and told me he would kill me. i also have 2 kids that he does not spend time with so if it helps do like i did wash your hands of him if he loves u enough he'll come to u dont make him think u need him just let god handle it. trust me i have to do it even now
2006-08-16 09:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by mshg24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, he is only a man with good sperm. Being a father doesn't make him this super type of person.
Surround yourself with beautiful relationships (sperm or no sperm). Do a better job then your parents and create wonderful memories for your children.
2006-08-16 01:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to keep him in your life just because he's your father. He was never in your life, and now he's in too much of it. I'd tell him how you feel, and tell him to knock it off. If he doesn't, I'd severely limit how much time he has with you.
2006-08-16 01:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI CHRIS, HE NEEDS TO MIND HIS OWN BUSINESS ...AND LET YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE.
AND LOVE YOU FOR WHATEVER MISTAKES YOU MAKE ,,, BECAUSE WE ALL MAKE THEM. LOVE YOU ALWAYS YOU CUZO, JESS
2006-08-16 01:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by JESS, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋