I have been separated from my husband and has 2 children I have been involved with a maried man, but he has been separated from his wife for more than 5 years now. He admits he doesnt love his previous one and he has plans of filing an anullment. He has 2 children from her. He continues to give financial support to his children and it's always ok with me. I also have plans of pursuing my marriage for anullment. My husband has abandoned my children and never gives financial support . I am presently working with the guy, and most of the time that I am in a very down situation, he is always there to support and bear with me. U to the extent that when my son was brught to the hospital and was confined there, he never left me. He also insisted of buying milk and vitamins and dapers for my children. I loe this guy now, but I know it's not right. what to do.
2006-08-15 18:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by CHECHE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Separated is not split into two units. If the two of you are serious about having a relationship, then finalize your legal and moral issues with your current partners BEFORE you go any further.
No form of birth control is 100 percent effective, and if you are not having an intimate relationship then you are missing out on the best way to make sure that this one does not end like the last one.
The other stuff is just details which can be worked out. The basis for your relationship must come first. Concentrate on this.
2006-08-18 12:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 67⤊ 0⤋
Um.....he's separated. A lawyer should tell you that he's not married; the final writ isn't filed, that's all. My lawyers told me that when I became legally separated. You're not doing anything wrong. Annulment? Sounds like maybe a Catholic thing? Not a legal issue, and there is no reason why you should feel bad at all about being with him nor he with you!
2006-08-16 01:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its been five years, he should already be divorced, seem like hes holding onto it. Both of you guys should get a divorce, and see from there, to see if you guys want to be together in a long term relationship, or marriage.
2006-08-16 01:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce from your spouses if you want to get together with him and start a family. He can still continue to support his children.
2006-08-16 01:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? Stop procrastinating getting the annullments and get legally clear of your marriages.
2006-08-16 01:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you leave your marriages. Then (and only then) should you continue your relationship. Good luck.
2006-08-16 01:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by mizz_kitty_79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is using you 5 years and he did not let her go stay away from him it's a lot trouble would you like it if some one took you love away from you don't go for his tricks their is a lot of good men out their
2006-08-16 01:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats meant to be will always find a way.
2006-08-16 01:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by thunderbirdx18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need a divorce, if you want to be with each other.
2006-08-16 01:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋