hi my best friend has a bf that has cheated on her for 6 weeks andshe does not know.well he came and told me that he lloved her but he also loved his biosexual girlfriend and told me not to tell her and if i did he said he would blackmail me.what should i do?
2006-08-15 18:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your the girl that your best friends b/f is cheating with, aren't you?shame on you, betraying a friend like that.
2006-08-15 18:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't cheat with you. Listen to him, beausce he is showing you his character. This you will be able to pass on to other women that may have a thing for him later (he's a cheater) and ask you about him. But you should just stay out of it. Let him and the girl he cheated on deal with this situation when it blows up. Also I would not tell your best friend you knew. It her situation not yours. You want to keep your best friend a best friend some things are better off not said. Don't put his and hers business out in the street.
At some point, always remember this, what you do in the dark will come out in the day.
2006-08-15 18:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would your friend believe you? or not and you lose a friend? However if the sorry sucker threatened me with blackmail, I'd squeal like a pig with a corn cob up his rear. Friendship be damned! Bottomline, that isn't love, he just so happens to have his cake and eat it too at the moment. I usually would say, if it doesn't directly affect you, don't get involved. But I don't know how your friend is and you could just as easily lose her if you don't tell her. As my momma used to tell me "let your conscious be your guide". No matter what you decide, prepare yourself for backlash as well as hoping for a good outcome.
2006-08-15 18:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...what's he got on you to blackmail you with? I'd tell her but tell her not to say who told her, tell her 2 say she found out on her own, that way you're safe. Dont let him get away with cheating...how would u feel if the positons were changed and u were being cheated on??
2006-08-15 18:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have something so wrong to be blackmailed.
call the cop.
2006-08-15 18:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats more important. your friendship or that jackass. tell him to kiss your ***.
2006-08-15 18:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is there for him to blackmail you with?
2006-08-15 18:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell..... hes a punk...... what could he have on you worse that all that....
2006-08-15 18:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by chad2bert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋