Family & Relationships - 8 August 2006

I took my serial cheater bf back after leaving him for 6 months. He did cheat on me for 4 of the 8 years we have been together, but we do have 2 kids and a dog. He is a good provider and I love him. He just had trouble staying faithful.

I recently found out about a girl, but I put a stop to it about 2 weeks ago.

Ppl say "oh you wont trust him (I dont), you'll argue, he'll cheat again, etc etc" but none of this has happened yet. We dont argue, it's like it all never happened.

I give him his freedom, (but he does stay up under me a little more than I'd like.)

Were you guys were wrong, the second time with a cheater can work, RIGHT? Or do you think this "honeymoon" will last?

ADVISE

2006-08-08 16:25:10 · 19 answers · asked by Nuni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the resson is he come home late and say he is working late and when she get off of work he come home like 5min before i do not no what to say do i tell her are do i leave it alone

2006-08-08 16:24:53 · 14 answers · asked by Brit-Brit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Where do guys who are 25 or older go to have fun in southeast kentucky. I'm have recently became single and I don't know where to meet people at.

2006-08-08 16:24:47 · 4 answers · asked by Mustang 3 in Singles & Dating

man, married, 30, looking for an electronic affair, note that I want just an adventure, with women of any age, any place, any marital status, to communicate through email and messenger, to exchange ideas, experiences, dreams, pictures, etc. I can offer good talk, respect, cordiality, sincere appreciation. write to ffeelliinnoo@yahoo.com

2006-08-08 16:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Felino 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im sorry but i have no idea what this means. He says i will enjoy it but i dont know what he means. He said its something special. What are strawberry
shortcakes and dirty sanchez?

And why is he saying I will enjoy this so much? So other girls in here enjoy this? What is it like?

2006-08-08 16:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He tells himself he's going to then looses his nerve at the last minute. How do I help make him more comfortable with it, especially since he's not into alot of kink?

2006-08-08 16:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by basset338 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know of a guy who's pretty decent...he's smart, cute, and funny, but he's a blazing racist! I'm not sure that's something I can just ignore, but I want to know what other people think.


And this is directed toward people who aren't racist. So don't give me any dumbass answers. Thanks!

2006-08-08 16:21:22 · 21 answers · asked by Shawnie 3 in Singles & Dating

I went through a sad and painfull divorce about a year ago. The marriage ended due to my husband having an affair with a co-worker.
We tried to work things out by dating again and going to therapy. Nothing worked...he was still "seeing' her and talking to her.
So things between us have drug out along time now.
My question is...now that he and his mistress are officially together and openly dating, how do I deal with the hurt and the possibility of them eventually marrying. I have a child with this man and it is killing me that this women is spending time with my child and sharing time with my child now. How do I be strong enough to deal with such aching pain? This is someone I feel has taken away everything I lived for. My home, my husband, and my child.
Sarrow... Kelly1

2006-08-08 16:20:29 · 27 answers · asked by kelly l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-08 16:20:01 · 20 answers · asked by hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my sons father for a few weeks then got pregnant. Until our son was two months he was never around but then we did get back together. He is now 10 months and I need to know how to change his birth certificate to include his father. I want to do it before he turns one. How do I do this? Who do I get in contact with? Do we have to have a blood test if both of us know he's the father?

2006-08-08 16:19:53 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two kids of my own and one step daughter. They all have anger problems big time. Yes they go see someone for it. But sometimes to me it dont seem to work. My step daughter and my oldest are the two with it the most. I am looking for some advice on how to help them with it.

2006-08-08 16:19:50 · 11 answers · asked by Belinda Cameron 1 in Family

i mean do u love anybody?i love _________ and u?thanx for answering.

2006-08-08 16:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by srinu710 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend gets stoned, and I have never. I want to know how much it impairs judgement. Is it similar to being drunk?

2006-08-08 16:17:54 · 12 answers · asked by BAW 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 16:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by nexus2k 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend michelle is in cheerleading and this week is hell week. which means that they do hard core conditioning. she is trying her hardest and the coach still expects more from her. her coach also points her out and 'teases' her. michelle is starting to break down and she actually cried because her feelings were hurt so bad. and she is also getting put down by her parents. her parents tell her she is a wimp and that she shouldnt give up so fast and that she is lazy. im her best friend and i tried making her feel better but i need more advice on what to tell her. do u have any advice???

2006-08-08 16:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by Little potato 1 in Friends

Okay, i have a crush on my step mom's nefew and i have his number when my dad burrowed his cell phone. My friend said she wanted to see my phone turns out she prank called him and he called my phone and i couldn't speak so i hung up. Then he called again. What should i do? call him back because he sounded mad and he said" Who the heck is this?!"

2006-08-08 16:16:16 · 6 answers · asked by Pre lives on 5 in Singles & Dating

i have 9 3 dogs two boys and one girl the girls name is samantha the baby is cooter and the other is bvo .and i have two girl horses and there names are shela and gracie.
and two goats named bullet and froggy. i have a fish named whitte and a frog named thomous.

2006-08-08 16:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whenever i talk to my girlfriend i never have anything to say... any help?

2006-08-08 16:16:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've found myself out of the dating scene for 4 years. Now ready I never meet people except here (online) I've met a few guys (online) intrested but I'm afraid to meet them in person. Should I tell them of my hesistance or ignore my fear and meet them?

2006-08-08 16:14:51 · 5 answers · asked by luvladyblue 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy, and he is one of my friends half brother, i think he is really cute and cool, we have hung out before, but i dont know if it would be okay to go out with him.

He likes me too, and said he did want to go out with me (he didnt say it to me though)

what should I do?

2006-08-08 16:14:19 · 27 answers · asked by little_razorblade 2 in Friends

He is a chiroprctor who I saw 1-2 x a week for mos. I was going through alot emotionally, as my 2 yr. old is autistic & my H was in denial and wasn't there for me. This man was. We were very attracted to each other. Although it was unspoken, the constant intense eye contact, offering his hand to get me off the table-hand holding, unnecessary touches,etc spoke volumes. We went to lunch. My H called nonstop. He got nervous and pulled away mentally. He thought my H knew. It was obvious he knew what I wanted and chose to come with me. We almost kissed, but didn't. He said I was making his stomach flip-flop. I saw him 2 days later nothing said. Days later he called & nicely told me he couldn't treat me anymore that he'd told his wife and she wasn't comfortable with us seeing each other. I said nothing happened and he said "ya but it wouldn't take much". I haven't seen him since--6 mos. I'm lost without him-his support,etc. I'm 38 and have never felt so deeply about anyone before.

2006-08-08 16:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-08 16:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy. I've always thought of him as a good friend and we share lots of common interests. He wasn't available until just a couple weeks ago when his girlfriend broke up with him. Since then, I've seen him maybe once and I've talked to him numerous times. A bunch of my friends keep telling me that he's still in love with his ex, and that they went on a date/kissed to try and decide whether or not to get back together. I asked him a couple days ago straight out whether or not they were back together and he said no, they are just friends. I don't know who to believe. My friends are reliable if their source was reliable. But I don't feel that this guy friend would have any reason to lie to me either. I really like him and I need to know whether to pursue this or not!

2006-08-08 16:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by shortchic070307 2 in Singles & Dating

If ur partner can't except you as you are that's not love...i'm thinking of calling it a wrap. I mean after 7 years and b/c I put on weight after my child and it keeps going up and down. that's not moral support. he says that when we fight he pokes fun at me for motivational purposes. I think not!

2006-08-08 16:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by myeia2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-08 16:13:00 · 15 answers · asked by sinamore1966 2 in Singles & Dating

Every picture is just like she copied from a magazine. She got the same gowns and everything!!!

2006-08-08 16:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

my name is tresha townes aka rere. i got drunk one night stoled my cousions girlfriends car and crashed it, it got towed after i abandoned it. {by the way i took the keys out her purse why she was sleep} i didnt call them til the next 2 days. AM I BOGUS

2006-08-08 16:12:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 16:12:03 · 17 answers · asked by Shannon T 3 in Friends

When me and my bf try to get some alone time ,our baby crawls in my room or the phone rings or somebody is at the door. The only time we get alone is before he go to work. What should I do????????????

2006-08-08 16:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by CW 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont want to get back together with him he cheated on me and lied about many things. He really hurt me and i know im not totally over him and i still do love him. Im fine when im busy and hanging out with people because i dont think about him but when im alone i start thinking about him. what do i do? Im worried because i start college again in two weeks and all of my friends are good friends with him and im scared. I know i deserve a good guy who treats me good and doesnt cheat but why do i still think about him.

2006-08-08 16:11:24 · 5 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Singles & Dating