I have two kids of my own and one step daughter. They all have anger problems big time. Yes they go see someone for it. But sometimes to me it dont seem to work. My step daughter and my oldest are the two with it the most. I am looking for some advice on how to help them with it.
2006-08-08 16:19:50 · 11 answers · asked by Belinda Cameron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be stricter.It is not very modern to be strict with kids but you have to determine the limits.Give them punishment,do not hit them but make them become a bit afraid of you so they will think twice.You owe it to yourself and the society when they all grow up.Good luck.Be persistent.
2006-08-08 16:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that they are seeing someone, but are you? The easiest way to deal with something is to understand it. If you go with them to family counseling maybe you can all find the answers together. There's got to be some reason why they have so much anger. Maybe you are doing something to contribute to it and you don't even know what it is. Sometimes people are just angry by nature. Usually there's a cause, though. Even if you can't go to counseling with them you can try talking to them calmly and in a way that makes them feel like it's safe to tell you what the real problem is. If you know that, then you can make a start.
2006-08-08 23:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they usually have something wrong especially if all 3 are like that they might need more attention and cheerleading,football something to keep their minds busy can you just ask them if they trust you they'll tell you,i have 4 boys 3,8,9,10 none of them have anger problems but then again they will get knocked for a loop ,
were they allowedto embarass you in public or somethingif they can push your buttons and get away with it as children its gonna get worsemaybe you and your husband need counsiling or parenting classes.call dr.phil
you cant take other peoples inventory before you take your own do you have anger problems when kids are born they know nothing everything they know now they were tought.
2006-08-08 23:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just viewed your yahoo 360 site and if I was your child I would be embarrassed to be seen in public with you Linda, and living in Stonewall, La., "The Armpit of the South" would not make matters any better. As far as lending you some advice, the only thing I can tell you is to make the kids clean that trailer, and you should consider another Polaroid picture of yourself to give the yahoo community a better impression of you and your family.
2006-08-08 23:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by ricosuarve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track with Therapy. IF they EVER do anything physical to each other (or to you) or damage the home -- do not be afraid to call the police and file a report against them. Sometimes that is the ONLY way to get through to teenagers.
2006-08-08 23:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask whoever they see for some advice on what to do. Just try to spend some one on one time with each of them and try to talk to them about it. Maybe if you could make some sort of reward system for good behavior that may help. My daughter has behavioral problems, I know how trying it can be, good luck.
2006-08-08 23:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you much without knowing the ages of the child. Different things work for different ages. You should try Dr. Phil's Family First. That book has helped me alot.
2006-08-08 23:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had big angermanagement and the reason was because my parents had a divorce. therapy helped a little with breaking things, but i had to talk about what was really on my mind to get the anger out. sports and exercising helps to.
2006-08-08 23:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey the best way to treat tantrums is to neglect them. when they realize that you are not heeding to them they will stop it gradually.suppose the eldest asks u for a toy and throwing tantrums ,the best thing to do is to neglect them and not give them the toy they may do all the nasty things but if u dont budge pretty soon they will get tired of it and stop it. try it.it might work.
2006-08-09 02:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey do you have a rope, tie them up to a tree, leave them there and let the vultures peck out there eyes , and eat there fingers as a snack, then nibble on there toes,, talk about anger problems huh!!!!! good luck with those monsters,,,,,
2006-08-08 23:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋