I dont want to get back together with him he cheated on me and lied about many things. He really hurt me and i know im not totally over him and i still do love him. Im fine when im busy and hanging out with people because i dont think about him but when im alone i start thinking about him. what do i do? Im worried because i start college again in two weeks and all of my friends are good friends with him and im scared. I know i deserve a good guy who treats me good and doesnt cheat but why do i still think about him.
2006-08-08 16:11:24 · 5 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going though the same thing, but you will get over him soon,just give it time.Trust me!
2006-08-08 16:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes! The best thing is not to ever ever go back to him. Once a cheater always a cheater, I had to find that out a hard way!!!! I would try to stay busy, maybe take some excerise classes at the gym, or yoga, something that will get you active and around other people. And dont show him how bad he hurt you. Guy love knowing that they hurt a girl, cause we care so much more emotional then guys, and get depressed and all that. Just go on with life and when you see him or the girl just say hi and that is all. Be nice but not friendly.
2006-08-08 23:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by mandy_42003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a look at this web site: http://rational.org/index.html
Now, before you call be crazy, scan down the page and find references to "The Beast". (That doesn't refer to your ex--even though it's appropriate.) It refers to the part of you that makes you think of him when you are alone. It MAY also refer to the part of you that let a guy get close to you who was not a good person. It's very likely there were signs your guy wasn't good when you were getting acquainted. Hope it helps.
2006-08-09 07:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate with your story coz i'm now in a situation like yours, yeah and its really hard, but of course the dilemma you're going through is really a process you have to get over. What i do on my spare time is still keep myself busy (like reading books, surfing the net, etc.) so that i will have a lesser time thinking of him. I also go out with friends sometime. And maybe you have to go out on a date with somebody else to meet someone new. Thinking of the "bad" things that he did to you will make you love him less. Hope i do help you. Good luck to both of us! =)
2006-08-08 23:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hold out till you start collage agin there is so many guys for you too meet there.
2006-08-08 23:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Drackule@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋