When me and my bf try to get some alone time ,our baby crawls in my room or the phone rings or somebody is at the door. The only time we get alone is before he go to work. What should I do????????????
2006-08-08 16:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by CW 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wait till the baby is sleeping, unplug the phone (or just turn off the ringer), and don't answer the door.
2006-08-08 16:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Well, first of all, being a mother of 1 boy who is already 8 years old, I have been through this, (althought I never left my child unattended and crawling around the house) and the only thing you can do is accept that it isn't going to stop until the baby is around 12 or 13 or so. J/k, it will go on until he/she is old enough to understand what privacy is which is around 7 or 8 and even then you can't just shut them out while you have Sex with your b/f. It's just all a part of being a parent. Until then you can only take steps to be alone with your man during nap times for the child while your child is hopefully in a secure area such as a play yard, or baby bed, etc. My question is, whats an 8 month old doing alone anyway crawling around the house while you are in bed with your b/f? You need to study this and figure out what "being a responsible parent" is.
2006-08-08 16:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Candy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your baby is crawling into your room. Seems like the baby has more sense than you. You should never leave an 8-month old alone to crawl around without you watching him. Put the baby in a crib or playpen, for crying out loud.
2006-08-08 16:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i wouldn't leave the baby just crawling around when your not around. i would try to put the baby down for a nap in a play pen or bed. pretend you're not home or put a not on the door and take the phone off the hook
2006-08-08 16:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to plan some alone time for the two of you, like a romantic evening with just the two of you. Take your baby to the babysitter and unplug your phone and doorbell.
2006-08-08 16:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by moma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a moat of lava for the people at the door. I suggest sharp spikes for keeping the baby out, maybe just a three foot thick swath of them at the bedroom door. For the phone, just turn of the ringer, you don't have to answer it.
2006-08-08 16:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could take the child to a daycare or ask a friend to watch it for half an hour. The baby has to be the first priority for the two of you right now.
2006-08-08 16:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invest in a baby gate! Oh and an answering machine with the volume dooowwwnnn
2006-08-08 16:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by trix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invest in a play pen a baby gate and unplug the phone and ignore the door:)
2006-08-08 16:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by jackie84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the baby in a play pen or baby bed... close the door, maybe a baby gate??
good luck you need your own time alone
2006-08-08 16:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by answerqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋