Family & Relationships - 8 August 2006

My best friend of 20 years is having a relationship with my ex-girlfriend behind my back. I am still on good terms with my ex-girlfriend, and we hang out once in a while. I found a 1 year anniversary letter in his car when he let me borrow it for the weekend. I can't believe I was completely clueless for a whole year. I haven't told either of them that I know. I feel really uncomfortable with the two of them being together. How do I deal with this???

2006-08-08 19:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by ic1212 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she broke up with me a week ago over a big fight, and she even dont want us to be friend. in short she wants no comunication anymore no contacts no nothing, like we never met. we fight and break before but now its final.

But when i was overdosed and hospitalized, she called me and ask what happend, and said that dont do it again. do you think shes' concerned? do you think she still loves me? if i court her do you think she'll give me another chance again?

So right now its been a week since she left me, it seems years had past, every single day i always think on how to get this day over without thingking of her and without feeling empty and alone, but ofcourse i always fail. i feel that dying would be the easy way out.

But im not losing hope, i love her ill fight for that. even if i will fail everytime. trying to get her back gives me a reason to live.

What do think would be the most romantic way to do to make her fall in love with me again?

2006-08-08 19:44:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jbye 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 19:43:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a web of problems. I really like my brother's friend, I mean he is everything my dream guy would be. Funny, sweet, adorable, makes me smile, and a man in uniform. The problem is that he has a girl friend, is off to training camp, and my brother's friends are the type that say " Little sisters are off limits"

I really like him, but I dont want to be a "homewrecker" even if I think we are meant to be. He graduated already and I will probally never see him again...What to do?

2006-08-08 19:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on a date with a girl a while ago, and her breath smelled really bad. I wanted to tell her, but I didn't want to sound mean.

I really like her.

2006-08-08 19:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i look the same, i act the same. I was kinda shy though. But what changed?

2006-08-08 19:41:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oh well it happened the other day, my man started playing some game on the internet where you can play with others from around the world. I noticed that then he added some chicks name to his list. I was curious due to my depression i get jealous at the smallest things like a nice girl walking past., i kept hovering over his shoulder and he told me if he was gonna cheat on me would it be infront of me..So i sat down, then i noticed that hed asked her for a pic which i confronted him abt and he said that it wasnt for him but for another person.He told me i was wrong for not having trust in him.still didnt believe him so the next day when he was at work i checked the history of their mesages it was for him, he had also made a comment about do you want "to play with me". i broke down. is this cheating ive confronted him abt it and he said he didnt think id find outwe just got married and have an 8 month old ..what should i do, coz i feel like he doesnt want to be with me.!!

2006-08-08 19:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I heard that mexican maids like at hotels in mexico actually have sex with guests for money expecially with college guys during spring break. has anyone ever heard of this happening to them or anyone they know

2006-08-08 19:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by I Keep It Real 2 in Singles & Dating

fall in love with a girl for the past six month she my colleague but my income limited no extra cash to go for date what should i do?

2006-08-08 19:37:53 · 24 answers · asked by Asst Team Leader 1 in Singles & Dating

have your first boyfriend

2006-08-08 19:37:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The person I fall in love with must be able to_______!

2006-08-08 19:36:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I decided to post this in Marriage and Divorce because I figure there are a lot of people who would have good advice about making the best decision in a relationship... For 2 years, I was friends with a guy in Dublin over the internet. A while back, he "introduced" me to his roommate, and we are crazy about each other. He's visiting this Fall for the first time, and I have never been so excited. However, I know my family would never approve of the relationship, simply because it began online. But I know my feelings are real; I have never felt so strongly about someone. I just don't know if I should pursue happiness with someone I adore, or cater to my family's wishes and settle for less. On the one hand, I'm with him, but my family is severely disappointed.... while on the other hand, I'm miserable without him but pleasing the people who raised me. What should I do?

2006-08-08 19:36:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was/Is in the National Guards in Guam. Sold insurance. African American originally from New England state.

2006-08-08 19:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by tamudancer 1 in Friends

For 2 years, I was friends with a guy in Dublin over the internet. A while back, he "introduced" me to his roommate, and we are crazy about each other. He's visiting this Fall for the first time, and I have never been so excited. However, I know my family would never approve of the relationship, simply because it began online. But I know my feelings are real; I have never felt so strongly about someone. I just don't know if I should pursue happiness with someone I adore, or cater to my family's wishes and settle for less. On the one hand, I'm with him, but my family is severely disappointed.... while on the other hand, I'm miserable without him but pleasing the people who raised me. What should I do?

2006-08-08 19:35:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are many first kiss questions out there but this is a diffrent one. I know this girl for about 4 years and I never kiss on first dates. Thinkin about kissin her on this date because we live far from each other so this might be the only chance or i'll be that guy who's "Oh,he just a kid who i went to the movies once" . Sometimes I think I shouldn't kiss her on the first date because I dunno...it's just rude? and she's 16, I'm 2 years older than my date,so if i dont kiss her on first date, I'm just a pure gentleman.

2006-08-08 19:33:59 · 17 answers · asked by thaquarterbacker 1 in Singles & Dating

should there be a problem with that?

2006-08-08 19:33:11 · 7 answers · asked by pyg 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 19:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by AryoX 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 19:31:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 19:31:33 · 13 answers · asked by Tash M 1 in Friends

serious answers please

2006-08-08 19:31:11 · 26 answers · asked by answerqueen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-08 19:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 19:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by skyhopperveg22 1 in Singles & Dating

What moment or person entered your life and changed it for the better?

Have a lovely day!

2006-08-08 19:29:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-08 19:29:43 · 3 answers · asked by srini 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious to know, how many females amongst us love the idea of flashing in public or have dared to do that or would wish to do it or love doing it?

2006-08-08 19:28:41 · 1 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-08 19:28:27 · 1 answers · asked by Jeremiah J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my wife dearly however she says I do not show her the affection she needs. She tells me I am a great Father and Husband but I need to be a friend and more romantic. This all sprung up one day and I had no idea it was coming. She says she will not change her mind but I really want to work through this and save my marriage. Yet I do not want to come across as a little whiney punk. She means everything to me and if I had known this was coming I would not have let it get this far. Any ideas?

I did not mention that even though she said it was over she then said she would think about it. So how do I know when to start trying to show her I can be more affection. Hell, this morning she wouldn't even let me kiss her. I think I am screwed

2006-08-08 19:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by rushin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've known him for a while now and every other time me and his sister go hang out he comes along sometimes, even when its really late at night we talk to each other, and over the years now i've started to see myself get more and more attracted to him...and i dont know if i should tell him or keep it to myself. and i don't know when the right time to say it....help! help! help!

2006-08-08 19:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by frenchie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-08 19:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my childrten hate him. really for no reason except jealously. I raised them without help from their daddy. I am supposed to be there at all times for babysitter ,cook when they are to tired to do so etc. I now live 150 miles away from them. They will not speak to me, nor let me speask to my grandchildren My health is very bad in fact I am considered terminal with two fatal diseases. It is tearing me apart to not e reconciled to all,of them before I die. I do not know what to do to solve this problem please help me with some suggestions Dianne

2006-08-08 19:26:26 · 3 answers · asked by dianneiam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships