2006-08-08 19:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would you have sex with this guy for money? Are you aware of what this would make you?
If you want to become a surrogate mother for his baby you can do it without having sex with him. I read of one couple who used a turkey baster to get a surrogate pregnant. You don't have to be this primitive but you get the idea. If you want to go the more formal route than talk to a Doctor about doing the procedure. Either way I wouldn't jump into bed with this guy. You don't know what their real motives are.
Also, if you do get pregnant and they renege on the deal because the baby doesn't live up to their expectations (it's happened) what do you do then? Get the whole deal IN WRITING and make sure you see a lawyer.
2006-08-08 19:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you really thought this through? You do know what a pregnancy means right? This will change your body permanently. Not to mention the hormones you will expose your body to, what if something goes wrong with the pregnancy?
Are they willing to cover all medical expenses?? Do you even know these people? This is a life altering situation. Furthermore this is a child that you will possibly have NO contact with after it is born.
When you see the tagline "having a baby changes everything" they were not joking!!!!
You need to think long and hard about your choice, seek some advice from a counselor or trusted friend/family member. You also need to speak to a medical professional. In addition you should consider a medical just to weed out any pre-existing problems. Do you know if they are willing to cover those expenses? What about time off from work that you will miss??
I understand that several married couples cannot have children and that is sad, my heart goes out to them. However you need to consider all your options, do a lot of research and do some soul searching before you make such a huge decision.
Best of luck in whatever path you choose.
2006-08-09 02:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by iceycalm101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a surrogate? Or out of the blue did you get asked this question? If you decide to go ahead and carry the baby for this couple, then I would make up a contract, put everything in writing so up front each of you know what you expect for one another!
2006-08-09 02:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sexy cali
Sometimes people who cannot have children go to great leagths to have children like offering people money to have children for them.You should think about making him get a compleat medicial before he does this.You don't know what medicial problems he has.Some women desperate for money would do it for less.Otherwise you can do this but get some good advice from your faimly and doctor first.
wayne wells
2006-08-09 02:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends.....are they going to give you that much each time until it takes???
2006-08-09 02:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, I'd do it for half that.
2006-08-09 02:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋