she broke up with me a week ago over a big fight, and she even dont want us to be friend. in short she wants no comunication anymore no contacts no nothing, like we never met. we fight and break before but now its final.
But when i was overdosed and hospitalized, she called me and ask what happend, and said that dont do it again. do you think shes' concerned? do you think she still loves me? if i court her do you think she'll give me another chance again?
So right now its been a week since she left me, it seems years had past, every single day i always think on how to get this day over without thingking of her and without feeling empty and alone, but ofcourse i always fail. i feel that dying would be the easy way out.
But im not losing hope, i love her ill fight for that. even if i will fail everytime. trying to get her back gives me a reason to live.
What do think would be the most romantic way to do to make her fall in love with me again?
2006-08-08 19:44:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jbye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wake up!!!!!!! time to move on ...... If it is to be when you both grow up you'll meet again in the mean time conentrate on bigger and better things especially if this not the first fight .....
2006-08-08 19:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by shun20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, been there, done that, got a refund on the shirt. You will NOT get her by doing anything. You have a SMALL chance by doing NOTHING. Leave her absolutely aalone. Hang with friends or whatever your support system is and leave her VERY alone. Her curiosity about what happened to you will bring her around and if it does not, it is definitely over and you will HAVE to give up on her. People fall in love all the time. Think about thgis, there was a day when you did not even know this girl and you were just fine, right? Think about that and you'll realize you just haven't met the NEXT one yet.
2006-08-16 16:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all I am concerned that you ended up in the hospital b/c of an overdose.
Your ex was concerned about you b/c like any human being its our nature to care about each other, but dont confuse it for wanting you back. It sounds like to me she is ready to move and the the unfotunate reality is that you must accept this and move on as well. Sorry but it is.....
You need to seek counseling, whether its from someone older, a friend or a professional you need to talk to someone.
Also you cannot make someon fall back in love with you. The only thing you will achieve by attempting to woo her again is creep her out, she may seek police assistance to keep you away....not a good thing for you.
Sorry man you must move on to get your life back on track, get involved in other activities. Seek out other friends and in time you will feel better about losing "that girl"
2006-08-08 19:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by iceycalm101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-24 03:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me be blunt about this, forget her, get over it. You are her EX for a reason. Apparently she dont want you anymore, or she would try to get back with you. Theres something going on there and its best to break away. You know the old saying," if you love someone, set them free, if they come back to you they are yours, if they dont, they never were." Thats the way it is.
2006-08-16 06:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. There is no way you can "make" someone love you.
Try and do other things to get your mind off of her. Then eventually try to meet new people, maybe by doing something different you haven't tried before.
2006-08-16 12:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by special-chemical-x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean up your act! Being an overdosing drug user says to the world you are weak AND stupid!!!!!!!!!
Why would any woman be interested in a loser who needs a crutch just to face life! Everybody wants a partner who will be part of their support structure for a better life. Look at what you are offering! Nothing, but hanging out in emergency rooms and rehab!!
2006-08-16 02:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by bbikin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's done with you. She ain't comin' back. Forget it. There is nothing, nothing you can do to get her back. You must move on. Smell the coffee. Pull up your britches and pack it in, like a man. Unless you're a little girl. Then just cry. Oh....my girlfriend left me. Ohh...my life is over. Wah, wah, wah. Be girl. I don't care.
2006-08-15 18:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you were depressed. you overdosed - suicidal ideation realized, but thwarted. fortunately for you. seems to me you still are depressed. and still gung-ho over your ex. she called because the 2 of you had a good history together, thus the concern for your welfare, but please do not think of it as something more. if she gave any inkling of interest towards you after your discharge from the hospital, then that glimmer of hope is justified. for the moment, i suggest you go for counseling. taking your own life is not the answer to your misery. and, give yourself time to heal, both emotionally and physically. let her be. live life.
2006-08-15 16:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋