I have a web of problems. I really like my brother's friend, I mean he is everything my dream guy would be. Funny, sweet, adorable, makes me smile, and a man in uniform. The problem is that he has a girl friend, is off to training camp, and my brother's friends are the type that say " Little sisters are off limits"
I really like him, but I dont want to be a "homewrecker" even if I think we are meant to be. He graduated already and I will probally never see him again...What to do?
2006-08-08 19:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't wish to marry him, that is way too far in the future...And I know this isnt "puppy love". I have experenced "puppy love" and I have never felt this way before.
2006-08-08 19:57:11 · update #1
Back off, grow up.He is already taken so you need to move on..
2006-08-16 07:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just sit this one out. Since he is already in a relationship you don't want to start anything there. If he says little sisters are off limits then most likely there will not be an exception made. You should just wait until you see him again and see if your feelings have maybe changed... This sounds like puppy love. Good luck
2006-08-09 02:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is somewhat older then you, you have time to wait for him, you do not know how his relationship with his actual girlfriend is. Besides, countless of guys who think that little sisters are off limits think again if the sister is hot enough. But if you meet someone else along the way, do NOT turn him away because you are waiting for this guy that may never be yours. Remember the odds are against you!!
2006-08-16 19:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never say this:
but relax: there are other fish in the sea.
also I very much question your wish to be married to a guy who's stupid enough to join the military during a time of war... to put it in simple terms:
he's nuts/ suicidal/ apallingly patriotic/ needs money and needs to get out very badly...
and under any of the above circumstances that person... is well... almost entirely undesirable.
my two no-no's for dating:
1) don't do drugs
2) don't date a soldier, no matter how nice.
2006-08-09 02:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He seems to be off limits, right? So, the only thing you can do is wait for the chemical supply to drain, and you'll be over him. Just make sure you don't see him too often, or your chemical supply will just go up and not down, like you want to.
2006-08-16 21:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kirtap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not free for serves move on maybe you will meet again in ten years under different circumstances
2006-08-16 20:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by chesney G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he is gettin married or alrady married he aint off limits this isa your last chasnce so plzzz take it
2006-08-16 17:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, he's taken.
2006-08-09 02:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ooga Booga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE HAS SOMEONE. LEAVE HIM ALONG AND FIND SOMEONE
ELSE.
2006-08-16 23:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋