2006-08-08 19:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by AryoX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play to your strengths.
Everyone has a special skill, whether it is humor, musical ability, drawing skills, or athletic prowess. Think about your number one strength and incorporate it into your dating arsenal. If you can play the piano like Billy Joel, it won't matter if you don't look like Brad Pitt.
Model your successful friends.
Think about the three to five male friends you know who are successful in dating and relationships. Write down their names and two to three things each does to be successful. See if you can implement any of their ideas in your own dating approach
Get a Makeover.
We're not talking about radical, reconstructive plastic surgery here. But if you have one or two features (i.e., your hair style) that could be modernized, go for it. You'll feel more confident and it will show on the dating scene.
Hire a dating coach.
Fitness centers are not the only place you'll find a trainer. You can hire a personal dating coach to show you the way. You'll have an objective voice to guide you on your dating adventures.
Perform community service.
Sign up at your local soup kitchen, clean up a rundown park area, read to kids. You'll be giving back to the community, feeling good about your contribution, and you never know who will be giving back right by your side.
2006-08-08 19:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by j@mE$ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, calm down. Trying too hard is the first way NOT to get the girl. Next, learn that she might not like you back. And if she does not, she will not change her mind. So, you have to make a good first impression. Go up to her (preferably when she's alone) and start a conversation. If you can't think of anything, you can ask her questions. Start by asking for her name. After you've chatted for a while, get her home phone number. Call a few days later to make a date (no more than 5 minutes on the phone). If she refuses, and makes no other offer, then forget about her and move on to other girls. You may have to do this many (average is about 10 times) to find one that you like and who likes you back. Simple, huh? Now start moving! Good luck!
2006-08-08 19:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i refuse to help such a pitiful mortal who instead of going out to find a girl decides to waste his life away by pleading online to me, i mean, the best you could have even done was to put in a question such as any girls want to date me, but instead you post a question on here for me to help you find a girl, you are a pitifull excuse for a mortal and i will take this up in the next godly council meeting, maybe the god of money will decide to punish you too.
no help for you FOREVER
2006-08-08 19:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a God, but you could try calling upon Eros for a little help, but only if it be benevolent for you both.
2006-08-08 19:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok God of love will help u get a gal,but how does he when u havn't even told him whats wrong with the gal
2006-08-08 19:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o-k dude I'm having the same prblems with guys when it's meant to be then god will send you the right one and you'll know it to.
e-mail me and we can help each other
paige_starr@yahoo.com
2006-08-08 19:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sent me your email add and we will talk later
2006-08-08 19:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by eve_242004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her and if its meant- then it will be...
2006-08-08 19:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by melissa r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋