Family & Relationships - 7 August 2006

My ex-boyfriend & I have known each other for four years. Our break-up was very messy & during that time I would constantly call and beg him to take me back. He would respond back with cruel words & reject me each time I asked. In time I moved on & met someone new. During that time when I had my new boyfriend, my ex would call my house on a weekly basis to ask how everyone in my family was doing because he knew us so well. I kindly told my ex not to call anymore because I have a new boyfriend & it's not right that I stay in contact with him. He agreed and stopped calling. My current relationship with my new boyfriend just ended & me & my old ex started talking again. I thought I could talk and be friends with him, but each time I speak with him I'm reminded of the past (good & bad), what he put me through, & I wind up feeling lousy when we hang up the phone. It seems much easier for him to talk like friends. What should I do? Should I just ignore my phone everytime he calls.

2006-08-07 05:48:07 · 39 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

as for me..
life is just a gamble!
thanks for those who share!

2006-08-07 05:48:04 · 43 answers · asked by CALI GIRL 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not asking for names, just the most-loved member of your family who has died, either recently or at any point in your life. (For me, the answer would have to be my maternal grandmother.)

2006-08-07 05:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by nacmanpriscasellers 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

what if I know that I will always be in love with another woman besides the woman i'm with. but the other womandoes not want me in her life. should I just live a life with out some one in it ior just settle for a good honest frind and never have sex with her.

2006-08-07 05:47:18 · 5 answers · asked by christsluv4u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 05:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about my mails that i have be sending.

2006-08-07 05:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by meyou_emmy 1 in Friends

2006-08-07 05:45:23 · 18 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Friends

in a relationship?

2006-08-07 05:44:50 · 27 answers · asked by Brittop 2 in Singles & Dating

I kicked my bf out this morning and I don't want to be with him anymore he doesn't get it he thinks that it is a joke! He keeps calling me I don't want him anymore he can't hold down a job and he treats me like I am his child and he is a control freak. How do I get the point across to him that I don't want to be with him anymore I have told him that so many times and he doesn't get it he just wants to make my life miserable I think.

2006-08-07 05:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes you see white kids acting so-called black or dressing in a hip-hop fashion, that's easy to tell.
but what if i saw this kid that has black characteristics and sort of looks black, has a name like darius but he may be hispanic. do you follow what i'm saying? who cares but if i cannot ask his parents, i'm just curious as to what nationality he may be.
a name does not tell you anything.
you know there are certain ways people of different color carries themselves or sometimes the way they talk or pronounce certain words.
i know there a hispanics with african blood in them and some grow up around blacks. maybe he has a black parent.
please only serious answers and no who cares or why this why that or asking me something because i am curious.

2006-08-07 05:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend and I are 18 and we are going to be going to college. Were both commuting and we only live 4 blocks away from eachother. We were going out for 15 months, and have been apart for 3 months now. She said she wants to be single and be free to do what she wants without anyone telling her she cant or getting mad at her. She also has a friend that hates me for some reason and is pretty much a party girl, going to partys, drinking etc. My ex g/f never used to go to partys and things. We saw eachother almost everyday and have soo many great memories together. There wasnt any real problems between us. She says she loves me and wants to be together in the future, maybe even as late as the end of college, but i cant deal with not being with her for so long and seeing her with other people. She said that she knows im the best guy she will ever meet and she still has pictures of us in her room. Should I totally distance myself from her or should I still see and talk her ?

2006-08-07 05:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by Help mee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 05:42:44 · 5 answers · asked by brownsugar 2 in Singles & Dating

What was your first kiss and your first frenchie like? I want to know If others were as bad as mine. :-(

2006-08-07 05:42:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 05:42:10 · 15 answers · asked by Boo Boo 4 in Singles & Dating

Mine was this weekend. There was this other divorcee there and I'm pissed at myself for not entertaining her advances.

2006-08-07 05:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by killmylandlord 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 05:41:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we met at the pool he is totaly hott and he says he thinks im hot too. but heres the catch dylan a guy i had a fight with 2 years ago is probly telling him about it not big prob if he tells it right but its dylan he never realy tells the truth so what do i do?

2006-08-07 05:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Englishchick 2 in Singles & Dating

I am wondering if my boyfriend still loves his exwife, is there any way i can tell....weve been together almost a year and been friends for about 7 years now...weve been really close but yet i am worried that he might go back to her...he recently proposed to me...and of course i said yes because I LOVE HIM but how do i know for sure if he truely loves me

2006-08-07 05:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

answer this honestly. have you ever used a guy for the fact he had money or the guy was so ugly you were with him to make yourself look better?

2006-08-07 05:41:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the type of girl who is the girl next door. I like the natural look with little or no make-up. I don't understand why women cake it on when personally, I feel it looks disgusting and it makes it look like they're hiding their true identity. God gave you personal beauty. Don't you think women should use it more often? AMEN!!

2006-08-07 05:40:59 · 5 answers · asked by sugarbear 1 in Singles & Dating

what should ask her to really see if she want to or not

2006-08-07 05:40:49 · 1 answers · asked by big boy 2 in Singles & Dating

one girl is my ex-g/f who dumped me 6 months ago b/c is was unsure she wanted to be in a relationship after 2 1/2 years of dating. now she says she is sure about us and wants to try again. the other girl is someone i meet 2 months ago and things are great with her now, however she is a high maintenance girl and that is not really my style but she tells me she does not like being like that and thinks i can change her habits. am i just caught up in the moment with her? i see a future with my ex-g/f but and not too sure if i see a future with this new girl b/c i think after time she may get bored with me. however i am so into this new girl and i'm scared that if i not to take a chance with her i will be missing out on a good thing but if i do take a chance with her then i lose the sure thing with my ex.

2006-08-07 05:39:53 · 37 answers · asked by mike091677 2 in Singles & Dating

i know this will be different 4 guys and girls
both sexes welcome to answer.
pls make 2 lists of rankings (for girls and guys)

2006-08-07 05:39:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anon 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is getting married and were moving into his place which is away from my friends i dont want to move what do i do?

2006-08-07 05:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by blondy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-07 05:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by mark 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-07 05:38:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i wake up everyday in a house that i feel i dont belong in, i wish i was some where else, i do all i can to get out of this house but nothing works, i finally find a plan to get out but then i realize that would ruin my life so much more. i feel like my life is useless and nothing good will come out of it. I think i finally found my goal in life but theres no way to fulfil it without losing everthing I live for and want so in te end i can never fulfil this goal for myself because it would just make me lose pretty much my life. Is this what my life should be like?? Im only a teenager and im not depressed, im actually a very happy go lucky girl who stuck in the middle of the real world, and her fantasy.

2006-08-07 05:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family

I have to jump off the bed and go for a shower, I feel I have to wash out. I never feel in this way before dating this guy I am not that into. I am with him because he is super nice to me. I remembered my ex did the similar thing, he usually went to throw away those stuff in the restroom and then washed his hands or faces sometimes. I did not get it that time. Now I understand because he was also not into me even we were in a seriously committed relationship, he was lying to me all the time to keep me around. Is this a karma? Does anyone have the similar experience?

2006-08-07 05:38:08 · 78 answers · asked by wolf 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm no good at sports....so I'm not that kinda tomboy....I love to camp and fish and have fun.....I wear relaxed or baggy jeans and comfy t-shirts....plus u'll never find me without my sneakers.....I have a good sense of humor and it's almost impossible to make me mad.....why won't guys even consider dating me??? (sorry but I'm just feelin a little down....the guys I know don't even look at u unless ur in a mini skirt)

2006-08-07 05:37:58 · 22 answers · asked by badhair92 2 in Singles & Dating

my cousin just came here. he is living with his stepmom and dad. i have a feeling that sumthing bad is going to happen to him if sumthing happens to his dad. she makes him wake up at 5 oclok in the morning in the summer everday to go and walk to a home to work there for 6 hours but the catcch is it is a home for her. not him. he is 16 and she will not let him start taking drivers ed. just a few days ago. we were at a wedding and he was tired so he put his head down and tried to sleep and his stepmom and her mother came over there and he looked up. his eyes were red from him trying to sleep and all of a sudden she yells out. you have been drinking. he said no i was just trying 2 sleep. they say no you were drinking. then she runs over there and tells his dad and they leave the party while she was saying you will see what will happen to you oh you will see. and just the other day she went off on him because he took her umbrella out of her car without asking. what should i do?

2006-08-07 05:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by tutuskwad 1 in Family