I kicked my bf out this morning and I don't want to be with him anymore he doesn't get it he thinks that it is a joke! He keeps calling me I don't want him anymore he can't hold down a job and he treats me like I am his child and he is a control freak. How do I get the point across to him that I don't want to be with him anymore I have told him that so many times and he doesn't get it he just wants to make my life miserable I think.
2006-08-07 05:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HIM EVERYTHING THAT YOU JUST WROTE AND IF HE STILL DOESNT UNDERSTAND. MOVE ON.
2006-08-07 05:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by BLACK BEAUTY(GURL) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get a Restraining Order -- go to the courthouse, and keep a record of the phone calls -- having a good track of dates/time groupings, and several in a row, then you have been harassed, and this is considered dangerous. He already knows where you live, and you have experience with him not holding a job and treating you abusively.
If the court or police don't do anything, go to a Shelter and ask them for help -- they have services that may not be available elsewhere. Again, the tracks of his phone calls, his abuse (including verbal, controlling behaviors, etc) are all reasons to be scared.
2006-08-07 12:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a usesy. If you don't no what that is you just go out with a guy until the old(ex-boyfriend) finally gets the point that what you said was real and how u felt was real. and I am pretty sure he will get the point.
2006-08-07 12:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by scotties girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps bothering you get a protection from Harrassment order on him. He needs to realize that you have moved on and do not want to be with him
2006-08-07 12:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by fhockey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone. Get a restraining order if you must. Get a new boyfriend. Start surrounding yourself with people you know and trust.
2006-08-07 12:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come move in with me. i got a really good job and will let you run wild, and treat u like a woman
2006-08-07 12:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get someone else and then you tell your boyfriend that your ex is busy calling you and that kinda stuff and make it clear to him that the most you want is friendship
2006-08-07 12:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont answer his calls, call the police and file harassment charges if he continues, then he will realize you are serious!!!
2006-08-07 12:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up! stand your ground. but be careful just in case he wants to try to break in or something.....
2006-08-07 12:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls and don't let him back in...plain and simple
2006-08-07 12:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋