Family & Relationships - 7 August 2006

2006-08-07 11:44:39 · 15 answers · asked by Jelean Nadine 1 in Singles & Dating

im not the best looking guy(not ugly either), but i have a righteous personality, im kind, caring, valiant, honorable, and all around jus a big teddy bear,
the only reputation a have is only doing the school-work that i wanted to,(life science and the reading part of english)
and that i only ever had 1 friend, so i got the "lone wolf"
thing goin
i have never been violent, and have always been there when someone needed a shoulder to cry on

and though ive never been the social type, theres no reason that people would fear me.
so i just cant find a reason to why i've been ignored for the last 16 of 19 years.
hell i cant remember the last time the word "hi" was directed at me
(messages in online video games dont count)

there where 2 people i met here that talked to me... well we sent 4 messages back and forth and then they stoped,

so i ask WTH could be the problem!

2006-08-07 11:43:51 · 6 answers · asked by sage knight 3 in Friends

His wife gave up custody to his mother, and his mom shuffled out the time to him, which was once a week, for two hours. He questioned this, and the mom stopped bringing his daughter, all together. In the meantime he cried on her birthday, because the mom refused to let him see her. His mother then, filed for custody. Now him, and his father is on good terms, and he found out that his father had his daughter on her birthday, and now his father shuffles out time for him to spend with his own daughter. Although, his father says that he don't want to be in the middle of the court battle between him, and his mother. I say that the father should let him spend a couple of hours with her, alone. I also say that the dad, has indeed, made himself apart of the court battle, and he should ball out his dad. It is like, they wont let him be apart of her life! I am angry at the fact that there are many men, who don't want to be apart of their children's life, and here it is, a father can't.

2006-08-07 11:43:42 · 16 answers · asked by aadams45669 1 in Family

2006-08-07 11:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by curious882 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 11:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by Liz T 1 in Singles & Dating

they want me to do better, which is something we ALL kno i can do... my friends kno that, and they want me to..(they want me to do cute and rich).... i kno that, but hey! maybe i LOVE this guy even tho he doesnt look like brad pitt.... and my bf knows that, and all he wants is for me to be happy.

i'm not one to always get what want... but i want to be happy with him, i want him to be happy. he loves me soooo much, and i want my friends to be happy for me, and for the both of us...

how can i get this? =[

2006-08-07 11:43:11 · 3 answers · asked by tryna use my noodle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have no pets at the moment, but I do love animals and would love to have a pet dog or bird or even a cat but my fiance told me in no uncertain terms that if I "want a dog or a pet of any sort I should seriously look for another guy who is a pet lover". I have spoken to him about this previously in hopes that he might have changed his mind, but he is adamant. I am in near disbelief that if someone truly loves you they would be so hard and fast about a simple pet. He said that pets are more responsibility than children (not allowed to have one of them either). . . Is this enough for me to consider calling it off with him? I mean, I am happy to compromise to an extent but I'm wondering if he is going to be laying down hard and fast rules left, right and centre through the marriage. I always thought that if someone loves you, they want you to be happy and are prepared to put aside their petty grievances - however his grievance with pets doesn't sound too petty. Oh what to do!!? ?

2006-08-07 11:43:06 · 23 answers · asked by gwibsy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if ur parents dervoresed when ur 5 how would u be in 7 years?

2006-08-07 11:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey, if there are any guys out there interested about having a conversation via email or MSN messenger about current problems, beliefs, etc. email me.

2006-08-07 11:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by Lindz 2 in Singles & Dating

the scene is this...your out with your other friends then you saw this person coming with a girl but they are not touching each other.but the point is you saw that friend with someone...will u tell it to the girlfriend or boyfriend? if yes why if no why also?

2006-08-07 11:42:07 · 28 answers · asked by curlers 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a Jamaican girl who wants to find a bf

2006-08-07 11:42:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son is 12 & wants to live with me. we live in tx.

2006-08-07 11:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by frazee95 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is like they dont care about their life but i care for them even though we are not goin out anymore and he knos that but the prblm is that he stays gettin him self in trblm always gettin locked up, doin drugs, etc how can i help him because i feel is like my duty to help him

2006-08-07 11:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am writing a book about two teenagers. The boy wants them be more than friends, but the girl thinks they are going too fast. I can't think of a good way for the boy to convince the girl that their relationship is not going fast. Is there any way someone can think of a type of "speech" the boy can say to tell the girl that they should be more than friends. It would be appreicated. And don't forget to give me ur name so I can give u some props in this book. THANKS SOOOOOOO MUCH!

2006-08-07 11:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Friends

I need help, my neighbour is very noisy, she lives upstairs and she is making me crazy. for example, sometimes at 6 am, she starts exercising in her apartment ( i believe on a machine or something). Anyways, the noise is so loud that it wakes me up and ruins my day. I told the manager once, but she ignored it. I appreciate any recommondations. i wanted to write her a note. If anyone also has any good ideas about what the note should be, let me know

2006-08-07 11:40:00 · 18 answers · asked by T REX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay last year I used to hang out with all mexicans. It was cool & then this mulatto girl moved in. she was pretty cool. i was friends with her too. After awhile, all my friends starting ignoring & started hanging out with the other girl & it really pissed me off. they used to compare her & i a lot and they would ask me why i didn't have light-skin and tell me I wasn't pretty enough. My supposed best friend used to call other black people in the N-word right in front of my face & mixed girl did also. They would also talk about how much they hated blacks. For some reason, the mixed girl started hating me. like when they would take group pictures they would exclude me purposely. they started a mexican party crew & they allowed that mixed girl to be in it because she could pass as mexican. it really pissed me off how the treated her a lot better than me & i was the ONE THAT WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR THEM. she would ditch them SO MANY TIMES. SORRY I'M REALLY VENTING.
So what do you think?

2006-08-07 11:39:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-07 11:39:10 · 8 answers · asked by amoryblaineplane 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a friend whom I enjoyed my time with so much. I was blunt and offended him, he won't want to talk to me anymore. I apologised many times, but he won't listen. I really don't mean it.

2006-08-07 11:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by MiLoGaL 2 in Friends

2006-08-07 11:39:02 · 15 answers · asked by babyice201 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 11:37:53 · 4 answers · asked by timsgirl789 1 in Singles & Dating

I took my gf out to meet some friends of mine and I wasn't very happy about the results. One of my friends works around medical chemicals and so carries the smell with him outside of work. He was completely respectful and polite to my gf, but my gf became very standoff-ish to him b/c of his chemical odor. She was responsive and jovial with all the other friends though. It really sucked because although he didn't say anything, I could tell my friend felt left out. Her response to when I brought it up to her later was, "I didn't mean to be mean, I just couldn't take his smell. He smelled bad."

Why would a girl would be disinterested in everything about a guy just for his smell? WIll she ever warm up to him? Is this girl just special?

2006-08-07 11:37:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, is there always a small place in your heart reserved especially for your first REAL love?

2006-08-07 11:37:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, lets get this out of the way, YES I am an adult.... I just wanted some advice here.
My best friend is a bit of a drama queen. she exaggerates EVERYTHING!!! If she has an ear ache she has a punctured ear drum, if she has an infection she has blood poisoning, etc...
Lately it has just been getting to me. I never know when to believe her or shrug it off as one of her exaggerations. Problem is now she is saying she has cancer. By the looks of it she could be sick, but I know she is a hypochondriac. Now I feel terrible... Do I go along with it and offer my sympathy and support or blow it off like I have been? she really means a lot to me and I have known her children since they were born (and vice versa). Our kids are like cousins and really miss each other.
Any advice??
I really do miss her...

2006-08-07 11:37:23 · 1 answers · asked by cyndi71mom 5 in Friends

I have met this girl that I like. We have known each other for a few months now. The more and more I get to know her, the closer drawn in I get. We get along with each other so well. She compliments me and I compliment her. I don't know if I should throw in the towel and get closer to her, or should I keep searching for the one. I am 27 yrs old. part of me wants to keep looking and part of me is sick of searching.

2006-08-07 11:37:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think I love somebody, but I dont know How do I know if it is love?

2006-08-07 11:36:57 · 23 answers · asked by drrep73 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone tell me of the cost of getting married in a church in las vegas?

2006-08-07 11:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by sweetcarmel37 1 in Weddings

Alright, I'm dating this girl, a very loyal girl, but theres this thing. She's one of these girls who tells her friends that she loves them, and she's friends with her ex's. First, I don't think it's right that she tells her ex's she loves them, even if they are her friends. Second, two of them had tried to break us up before, and yet she has admitted to STILL saying it to them.
I feel this is verrrryyy unsupportive behavior for a g/f, that she does that.
Am I overreacting? Or is the guy [me] actually right on this one?

2006-08-07 11:35:03 · 33 answers · asked by Airborne Retired 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The hi5 site is a bit like the site make friends online or (MFO) for short

2006-08-07 11:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by matt c 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 11:34:21 · 8 answers · asked by topwrnch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just wondering, mainly for those of you out there who have given/recieved promise rings, how did you/your partner do it and what promise was made upon the ring?

2006-08-07 11:33:23 · 3 answers · asked by freeze_guy_2001 2 in Singles & Dating