will you tell your other friend if u saw his/her bf/gf somewhere with another person?

Question

the scene is this...your out with your other friends then you saw this person coming with a girl but they are not touching each other.but the point is you saw that friend with someone...will u tell it to the girlfriend or boyfriend? if yes why if no why also?

Answer 1

Just tell your friend that you saw their boyfriend and leave the details out. If she says "Oh-so and so saw you the other day" and he replies with "Yeah, I was out with my cousin, remember?" then everything's good. If he never mentions that other person to her, maybe there's a problem and then you could speak up.

Answer 2

In general no. Unless I saw them kiss or sleep with each other or such. Just seeing two people out to together is not enough to start all the drama. Just because you have a bf/gf does not say that you can not talk or be seen with any other person ever. They are still allowed to have Friends.

Answer 3

Sure but dont' make it a big dramatic thing. Just say you saw him walking with someone and you said hi. Make it look like it was innocent which it may have been. If it's more than that, then the truth will eventually come out.

Answer 4

I would tell them, but in a casual way. Like...'Hey I saw Bob and his friend last night.' They would probably then ask which friend or say something like, "Yeah that was his sister...they went out to dinner last night." I wouldn't make insinuations about infidelity, but I would let the friend know what I saw in a non-threatening way.

Answer 5

I'd definitely go with your gut feeling on this one... if you feel that what you saw was more than just two friends hanging out, then by all means tell your friend. If you think you are jumping to conclusions or are being just a tad bit irrational, then I would hold off on involving your friend.

Answer 6

absolutely!!! they have a right to know. they shouldn't give the other person 100% of themselves when the other person is only giving 50%. don't let them keep going on, because the longer you wait, the worse it gets. the other person should know because it's their heart that they need to watch out for. good luck, and i hope you make the right choice. i know it'll be hard, and they might be upset at first, but they'll thank you later. it's for the best, so no one keeps getting hurt, it just stops there. don't keep watching it, do something about it hun. i wish you the best of luck. have a grerat day!

Answer 7

im not a nosy person. and id rather stick my nose where it belong. No, i wont say anything cos perhaps i might cause some misunderstanding. let them sort things out by themselves. i always find out that girls are somewhat quite nosy in this and cause some probs that shouldnt have happened at the first place.Silence is golden

Answer 8

Yeah i'd tell. I prbly wouldn't make a big deal about it though. I'd say something like, "hey so i saw 'name' at the mall with 'whoever'. Did u know that?"
But as a friend i would DEFINITELY tell that person...

Answer 9

Mind your own business!!!!! You don't know who this other person was or what the reason for their being out together. It could be business or a relative, or some other completely innocuous event. The point remains that it is not your concern.

Answer 10

no you dont. first of all it is not your business secondly it will only result in pain for you. besides its not like they were having sex. Once I told on a friend because my friend was being cheated on and not too long after that neither person would talk to me and they ended up back together, and I know my friend was cheated on. it is always a raw deal.