I have met this girl that I like. We have known each other for a few months now. The more and more I get to know her, the closer drawn in I get. We get along with each other so well. She compliments me and I compliment her. I don't know if I should throw in the towel and get closer to her, or should I keep searching for the one. I am 27 yrs old. part of me wants to keep looking and part of me is sick of searching.
2006-08-07 11:37:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you dont know, she isnt the one!
2006-08-07 12:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you like her you should go fo it, but if you truly feel like you are not sure then dont. You dont want to get with her and down the road you feel like you made a mistake and you do something stupid like cheat.Dont just settle because you are tired of looking. The right girl may be out there or you may have already found her. Give it some tme and go see what else is out there. If it is meant to be you will go back to the other girl.
2006-08-07 18:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her why are you wanting to keep looking? I'm not sure I follow that part of what you said. As far as "Is she the right one?". Only time will tell. If you think she has the potential to be the one for you, then stay with her and see how it all works out. If you're not feeling it, then .. you know what needs to happen. Just be nice about it.
2006-08-07 18:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may already be falling for her. No use searching when "the one" maybe right in front of you. If things don't work out, then you will walk away knowing that you at least gave it a try. I have a feeling if you don't act on it ...you might be calling her "the one who got away." She won't be available forever. Good luck to you!
2006-08-07 18:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
27 is getting old. I am 26 and I just got married. Seems like the right time to be doing these things. If you appreciate her, just date her and in a year or two wait for marriage.
2006-08-07 18:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by adrixia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can feel it deep inside of you when you found the right one.You look into their eyes and you feel warm & safe & happy.You can make each other laugh & you miss that person so much when you are apart & you cant stop thinking about that person.You can feel your heart pounding in your chest & your stomach may get butterflies.You can sense the closeness & you have this feeling within that tells you it is right.You will know when you have found the one.
2006-08-07 18:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't settle for someone you don't love. Divorce can be a very painful thing to go through and you should be sure you are in love before making a huge commitment like marriage. Everyone gets nervous so don't mistake those butterflies in your stomach for doubt. Just go with what you really feel.
2006-08-07 18:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! 27 years old and not married yet.
I think your ready.
Go ahead and pop the question.
2 months of knowing her is enough time for you.
You have my blessing. Let there be wedding bells!
2006-08-07 18:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you think you might want to keep looking, that would be a good indication that she's not "The One". I understand getting fed up with "looking"...but why settle when there's obviously something that you are not perfectly content with. Put it this way...if you have to ask...then she's not the one....unless of course you are impossible to please or satisfy, and in that case, you're SOL forever.
2006-08-07 18:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Peach Tree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not sure then take a breather from this girl 4 a little while to get ur head together time away from her should help u to think and come to a decision good luck and hope u make a good decision
2006-08-07 19:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it like a roller coaster go along for the ride , enjoy it. give your all ,if it doesnt work out you wont have any regrets, and if you have to you can move on with your head up. keep your options open you never know. goodluck
2006-08-07 18:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋