Family & Relationships - 1 August 2006

My 13 yo daughter is a C cup. I worry about her breasts health and guys staring at her boobs, so got her bras with full coverage and support. She doesnt like them but though I'm a soft and understanding mom on this point I used my authority. Out of her bra types one gives the most support and has to be worn at least 4 days a week and she can't spend 2 consecutive days without wearing it. The other days she can pick one of the other types,which also give full coverage and good support. She hates this bra rule. One reason is it makes her wear the bra with most support at least 1 day on weekends preventing her from wearing shirts w/ thin straps. This bra is at http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,0,0,39236__products-detail.htm?brand=147&ovs_ber_wgr=104&ovs_ber_fgr=1478&ovs_ber_cup=C... It has 4 hooks in the back She says its not the bra for a 13 yo but I dont agree, it's really good. All I want is her best. She complains but obeys (very unwillingly its true),shes a sweetie. Am I overprotective?

2006-08-01 09:03:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Family

How would I know if my girlfriend is dating someone else,how can I find out.Please tell me if I can tell is there patterns and what kind,is someone seeing her when i'm not there.She lets me spend the night at her house 2 only days and tells me to go home. I was paying her expenses like going to Jewel Osco for groceries,Sams Club,Toys-R-Us,Walmart,Restaurants,Movies,I would give her $100.00 every two weeks to pay one or two of her Bills.Many times I would come home with $80.00 out of my check of $650.00,and yet I hav'nt paid my own Bills,I was behind on my truck Payment 3 months and Vehicle Insurance was not paid,my Cellphone was cut off because I did'nt pay it.When I asked my girlfriend if I can live with her she said no,she did not give me no explaination of why not just no.As I stopped giving her money and paying her expenses she does'nt call me as much,before she was calling me 10 to 15 times day now not even three times.I'm sad and depressed and I don't no what to do,please help...

2006-08-01 09:02:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because my boyfriend will give me a pic. if he can read my diary,but he can't b/c I like someone else and wrote about it in there.Please don't give me silly answers....What should I write in it?

2006-08-01 09:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met an guy over 1 year ago through a dating site, we have been emailing one another for about 10 months. I never told him the true city I live in, but the true stat and I Never told him my real name !. He lives in Tulsa Oklahoma. Also when we met on the dating site my picture was posted and his wasn't but I enjoyed talking to him and he promise to send a picture , he never has, but says soon, (right). We have never talked on the phone and I made sure not to disclose any personal information, but I did tell him a few times I go walking on the seawall and I live near Houston. Well, today is my birthday ( never told borth year) and I receive an email from him, that I have flowers waiting for me at a local flower shop and he says he hopes I live in or near that city. Yes I can the florist and the flowers and gifts are there. Should I be afraid , during the couse of us emailing he seem to be ok...but now I'm worried . How did he find me with such little information

2006-08-01 09:01:35 · 17 answers · asked by diamondminded 1 in Singles & Dating

shes 13 im 15...she used to be all over me...then i started liking her back..and she backd off..im the first guy ( of many future ones ) to hit on her........i askd her out about a month ago and she said idk.....she seems really distant and like she is nervous or shy or scared around me...like the way she talks to me..is totaly different then the way she talks with other guys..like she wont flirt or nething nemore...but occasionaly shell sneak a glance at me..and when i talk about different girls..she seems to take more notice.....she also told her friends that she mite like me...now she's telling them she doesnt'..but her mom and her are very close...and her mom said she said sumthing completely different .do u think shes just scared or doesnt like me ..or what?

2006-08-01 08:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Singles & Dating

any ideas?

2006-08-01 08:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by sweetgirl 2 in Friends

Married for 6 years. 4 yr old son, 9 mo old daughter. He went through treatment and would've been sober 3 years on Aug 9. He started drinking again last week. Got in a huge fight and acted like he was mad at me! Total alcoholic, I don't think I can go through this again.

2006-08-01 08:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have picked out the name for a boy but cant decide for a girl.any suggestions please nothing too hollywood or weird thanks 10 points to the best.

2006-08-01 08:57:50 · 36 answers · asked by angelina_mcardle 5 in Family

2006-08-01 08:56:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey if u are the John i am talking on Yahoo messenger when are u usually on?

2006-08-01 08:56:15 · 1 answers · asked by kimmie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a few zits. Do guys pay attention that much that they will not like you for growing up?

2006-08-01 08:55:32 · 16 answers · asked by JeSuSfReAk121 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with a guy for almost 6 months now. We are both in our 20's. We really like and care alot about eachother. The thing is, our parents don't know about it. I think they kinda suspect it but they haven't figured out yet. They've asked both of us about it, but we haven't come out with it yet. I think we should just tell them so they can hear it from us, even though they may not agree with it. He feels like if we tell them then it will create pressure on us, as far as them feeling like they have even more of right to be up in our business about how the relationship is going, whether or not he is treating me right, and so on because our families have been knowing eachother all of our lives. I can see where he is coming from and I don't know what to do. We both have been really honest with eachother about our feelings and they are genuine. We have a pretty solid relationship so far. We both have good intentions for eachother. What should we do?

2006-08-01 08:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by ♥BlackGirlLost♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf left me 7 months ago, he was mean to me and everything and i still loved him. But now i got a new bf. He loves and adores me and the other day my ex saw us together. My bf was sweet and nice to me and my ex saw that.
Do you think that he felt a little jealous? It's not that i'm using my new bf to make my ex jelaous but i'm just curios to know what he felt.
Thanks for your answers!

2006-08-01 08:54:50 · 14 answers · asked by loving_girl_05 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-01 08:54:49 · 22 answers · asked by devika h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me; I m a gay at 19. nowadays I feel so alone,don t know what to do. no1 knows I m a gay cos my family is so conservative, n also in turkey it is much harder to tell u r gay..I dont want a relationship attached to only sex. I m looking for some1 to love n be loved. but I m so pessimistic about finding a guy , especially in my city ..( plz help me, tell me what to do ; those who mock plz don t answer.. thanks

2006-08-01 08:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by lonelyboylookingforlove 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a man on the internet and spent about a month or so sending e-mails to him. He only lives a couple of miles from me and we physically met about six weeks ago. I have fallen for him really quickly but he won't talk to me about how he feels about me.
When I am with him he makes me feel very special and I want to spend every minute of him. However he only wants to see me once or twice a week. I am just left confused. It feels like a roller coaster relationship because when I'm with him I'm on a high and when I'm not I keep wondering how he feels about me and whether I am just a casual fling or whether he has stronger feelings for me. Am I just expecting too much too soon? What can you suggest I should do?

2006-08-01 08:54:08 · 15 answers · asked by Been there 2 in Singles & Dating

I hav a friend who's doin just that!

2006-08-01 08:53:11 · 13 answers · asked by Helen 5 in Friends

2006-08-01 08:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 20 year old daughter has been staying out all night, which we do not have an issue with, but we have an issue with her not calling. ours rules are simple, if you are not going to be home by midnight, you must call by 10 pm unless an emergency. after several warnings, I grounded her for a week. she thinks I am mean and has moved out. IS having her call if she is not going to be home proper?

2006-08-01 08:51:50 · 40 answers · asked by wonderingminds 1 in Family

My hub and another married woman had kissed and made out 2 years ago. The woman and her hub are common friends with my hub and I and another 5 couples, we have always hung out and been good friends. Anyhow I found out from my elder sis about my hub and the Woman's encounter. I also know that it was once, but everytime they met at parties and all, they would stare in each others eyes, hug each other, dance closely when they could, and talk. My hub had told her that he could not see her anymore and they could be friends, but that he still liked her. Well that was still a year ago he confessed feelings. then over time we moved away from her because of hub's job. I got prego, had a baby girl who is 3 months. However even when my hub is here, and the woman is 7 hours away, they email about daily how are you’s, what are you doing, what are weekend plans, and they want to know daily, weekly details from each other. Well the woman is the one who writes my hub the emails in yahoo and myspace

2006-08-01 08:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i a guy who is 16. and there is this girl i have been liking for about 8 9 months now....i think she likes me to Because of some of the things she does....like hits me in playful ways, talks to me in a sweet voice, wants to know everything i say when i mumble, looks at me even if i am not by her side, when she looks at me ( when we talk) its like she cant look into my eyes for about more than 7 seconds......I want to know if( with the little signs i gave) if she likes me back.....

and if yall can give me some other signs i should look for.....if yall need more info jus email me...elmo_zakky@yahoo.com....well please answer if yall can

also i dont have her number and she doesnt have mine so just to get that out of the way...and i see her mostly everyday....

thanx

2006-08-01 08:51:13 · 5 answers · asked by Zac d 1 in Singles & Dating

if you could create the ideal man for you, how would build him?

2006-08-01 08:50:53 · 19 answers · asked by prmami4eva_17 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-01 08:50:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-01 08:50:28 · 14 answers · asked by uro levu 3 in Friends

my husband has Bipolar and Add. I am having a hard time with him latley. He tells me all of our fights are my fault and if I would not be the way I am he would not blow off the handle? (example. yesterday I asked him to show me where the switch was on the ceiling fan and he got mad at me telling me that the blades are wear they should be and that I am an idiot. Because he knows what he is doing) I told him not to yell at me like that in front of my child ever again and he said it was all my fault that he acted that way. Is there something I am doing wrong. Or is this typical bipolar disorder stuff. We are seeing a marriage counsler and she told him if he thinks he needs it he should see his counsler again. Well he does not think he needs it and told me I was the problem not him. How can I save my marriage and keep him going to see his counsler. I do love him a lot. i just dont love the way he has been acting please help me understand!

2006-08-01 08:49:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had chinese last night and my fortune cookie said "You were lost, but now your found". Have I been wrong my whole life looking for a women to make me complete. Can a cookie really make me happy. The cookie is so seducing, but I don't want to be wrong. And despite what the cookie is telling me I still feel lost. I can't be hurt again. I guess my question is should I tell the cookie that I'm just not ready for a serious relationship or should I just go with the flow and see where life takes me.

2006-08-01 08:49:42 · 38 answers · asked by the_world_is_yours44 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a study and would like to get some outside responses.

2006-08-01 08:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I would visit she would feel the need to make negative comments about my hair or insult my opinions or she does not like my way of thinking. She acts like she can do no wrong, and it makes me so mad. I do not insult her, and try to hold my tongue. This last time I had it with her insults so I left.

2006-08-01 08:49:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-01 08:48:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-01 08:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Singles & Dating