shes 13 im 15...she used to be all over me...then i started liking her back..and she backd off..im the first guy ( of many future ones ) to hit on her........i askd her out about a month ago and she said idk.....she seems really distant and like she is nervous or shy or scared around me...like the way she talks to me..is totaly different then the way she talks with other guys..like she wont flirt or nething nemore...but occasionaly shell sneak a glance at me..and when i talk about different girls..she seems to take more notice.....she also told her friends that she mite like me...now she's telling them she doesnt'..but her mom and her are very close...and her mom said she said sumthing completely different .do u think shes just scared or doesnt like me ..or what?
2006-08-01 08:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMAO, you called her bluff, good for you.
She was all over you to try and get your attention, and then when you stepped up to the plate, she got scared cause she might have to follow through.
Ask her out again, but if she says I don't know, or no. Walk away from her, plenty more out there.
2006-08-01 09:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's a little scared. It was cute when she thought that you two were just friends, but now that she knows you like her she doesn't know how to react to you. Take it slow and try not to put her in any uncomfortable situations. By the way, a little word of advice, don't listen to what her friends tell you. Your relationship is your business and when you involve others, especially her girl friends, it only leads to problems.
2006-08-01 09:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really likes you.
She is younger, and a little shy about liking sombody for the first time, so she can flirt and stuff with the people she really dosen't sare about, but around you she feels like a diffrent personand feels awkward and shy. Be kind, as her to lunch, talk about easy things you both know about and like. She'll confess her true feelings soon enough.
2006-08-01 09:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most girls love what they can't have. of course she was all over you when she couldn't have you. and now that she DOES have you, she doesn't want it anymore. she's going to seem distant the more you try to get closer to her. if it really starts bothering you, let her know. but try not to smother her. if she really likes you, she'll come around.
and don't ask everyone she knows about it. that's very immature. i realize you're only 15, but grow up. ask her directly if you have a question.
2006-08-01 09:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same sitch.See she's playing hard to get,what I would do is date another girl,then ,if she likes you,she'll be jealous.Once you know she is then break up with the other girl and say something to her like I wish I hada girl......she'll be ALL over you!
2006-08-01 09:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO ASK HER AGAIN...relationships your age are never serious, you just have fun...big deal. The way I see it, she's more confused than ever...just ask her whether she likes you. IF she says no, you're still young, move on.
2006-08-01 09:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you shes just scared.
2006-08-01 09:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by soccerchick_246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋