How would I know if my girlfriend is dating someone else,how can I find out.Please tell me if I can tell is there patterns and what kind,is someone seeing her when i'm not there.She lets me spend the night at her house 2 only days and tells me to go home. I was paying her expenses like going to Jewel Osco for groceries,Sams Club,Toys-R-Us,Walmart,Restaurants,Movies,I would give her $100.00 every two weeks to pay one or two of her Bills.Many times I would come home with $80.00 out of my check of $650.00,and yet I hav'nt paid my own Bills,I was behind on my truck Payment 3 months and Vehicle Insurance was not paid,my Cellphone was cut off because I did'nt pay it.When I asked my girlfriend if I can live with her she said no,she did not give me no explaination of why not just no.As I stopped giving her money and paying her expenses she does'nt call me as much,before she was calling me 10 to 15 times day now not even three times.I'm sad and depressed and I don't no what to do,please help...
2006-08-01 09:02:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing you need to do is break up with this girl becuase she doesn't care about you at all. She is using you and thats that! You need to find someone who cares about you as much as you care about them. A good relationship is about team work, not someone carrying all the wieght. She needs to get a better job and start trying a little harder or I would leave. Quit giving her money and see what happens, I think cheating on you would be the least of your problems at this point cuz you have a mess of your own that you need to clean up now. Get your life in order and your confidence up, sounds to me that your her paycheck and thats it. And form what you say, yeah she probably has a boyfriend and you are the other guy. thats why she only lets you stay over 2 days a week, those are probably the days he is busy. So stop over and just say hello. Just to see whats going on. Dont tell her your thoughts though, cause you could be wrong. But I have always been told that if yougive someone enoug rope they will hang themselves. Good Luck!
2006-08-01 09:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like you got yourself in deep you should get out now because even if she is not cheating she is using you for money but it sounds like she is a cheater and a user
2006-08-01 16:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might not be what you want to hear.
Just walk away. Forget her. She has been using you.
2006-08-01 16:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by joe_ska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋