Family & Relationships - 22 July 2006

I tried it before with my 1st wife, what a farce. She was cheating the whole time we went. Now wife #2 wants to go and so do I. She has been twice to counseling and I have been once, never together. I am depressed (clinicly) and I accuse her of cheating, I read her e-mail, look thru her cell phone. She said enough is enough. I love her very much, but I can't stop the thoughts. I am 45, she is 32 and a very good looking (strong headed) woman. We have a son 2 yrs old

2006-07-22 13:11:57 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who agrees with me that tyra banks goes overboard.

now, im POSITIVE, every single woman here, is gonna say, TYRA Banks just sticks up for women, but i'll argue that.

Tyra Banks, a successful model... and claims that she is a sisterhood woman, my thoughts, she's a male destroyer...

I dont think, that self-centered ***** ever looks at the guy's point of view.

not all guys will call their girls, bitches, for no reason, some will, not all will though. most of the time, the girl starts the problems... not being tyra banks, she doesnt ever look into the reason why the guy called the girl a *****. she jumps right to conclusion, that's the girl's point of view.

i remember when she was trying to make fun of the girls gone wild producer, why? he's just a business man, looking to make a living. like her... she's rich, he can't be. and he's not exposing girls, girls are exposing themselves.

2006-07-22 13:10:23 · 8 answers · asked by alco19357 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

She has started early menopause and has lost ALL desire. What can she/we do to help?

2006-07-22 13:09:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-22 13:08:52 · 12 answers · asked by Elaine 1 in Friends

and liyed about it!

2006-07-22 13:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by sexy_koby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a very close friend that I would like to get closer to but I don't want to loose the friendship that we already have. However if I don't try to get closer I don't think we will be more than friends.

2006-07-22 13:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by Bohica S 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom told me to tell her if i see my bro smoking (because he is supposed to be quitting) so if i tell her, then my bro gets pissed at me and calls me a tattle tale b*tch and if i don't tell, then my bro will keep on smoking and i'll be lying to my parents.
i'm 16, so it's really annoying being called a tattle tale because usually ppl get called that when they are like 5. lol
but do think it's DUMB of my parents to put me in a position where everytime i do what they tell me to do, that i get verbally attacked by my bro?
what should i do??

2006-07-22 13:07:17 · 14 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Family

If you tell a small lie at the beginning of a relationship because you never expected that relationship to turn serious, how do you tell the truth about those things. You see, i had some great insecurities about myself, and in the beginning of my relationship, i told some little lies that i really regret saying, and since then, the relationship has turned into a very serious relationship with marriage in the future. I regret the lies, and i have been trying to tell the ruth, but i have been having trouble with how to go about it? How can i tell the truth about those insecurities???

2006-07-22 13:07:04 · 3 answers · asked by pilotmanitalia 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer?
Hot or sexy
Short or tall
Blonde or dark
Sweet or funny
Love or care
easy 2 points huh

2006-07-22 13:06:02 · 2 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is my 2nd marriage. The first one lasted 19 years and produced 3 boys. Now 20, 17 & 13. She cheated and her situation didn't work out.
My wife now, for the past 3 1/2 years, has had enough of my drepression and is ready to walk out the door with our 2 yr. old son.
I work 2 jobs. By day I am the polcie chief of a small town, by night I work at the local airport for Delta. So I work about 60 - 65 hours a week. She had asked me to quit the airport job about a year ago, but I enjoy it and my 1st wife left me with about $30,000 in bills not to mention she gets $200 a week in child support.
My wife is very head strong, she too is a police officer. She has her hobbies, she plays soccer and has horses and within the last year has joined this medivial thing called the SCA. She really enjoys it. She goes away about 4 or 5 weekend a summer.
I know I have a depression problem & I don't talk. I was looking at her e-mails from what happened with wife #1. Boy is she mad. We are in counselin

2006-07-22 13:05:31 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after a bad relationship in the past.. i am finding it hard to ever trust again...i sometimes don't even want to trust again! how can i sort out these feelings so i can love again with all my heart and have no doubts?

2006-07-22 13:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamy Lover 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm bi-sexual i didnt think she would have to find out but i've been seeing this girl and we like each other alot we are thinkin about making this relationship official. any advice on how to brake this news to my family?

2006-07-22 13:04:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which name do you like best, Naomi, Ariel, Alexis, Meariel, or Lyra?

2006-07-22 13:04:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf broke up again cause i said i liked some1 else but the last time we broke up he said he was switchin skools because he wouldnt be able to see me without hurtin and hes cheated on me befor so y would it hurt him???? i just dont understand!!!

2006-07-22 13:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by sexi_pink_panther 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-22 13:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by L' K '06 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday during our conversation my girlfriend said to me that the thing she most likes about me is that I am very sweet and really down to earth, which she says is uncommon in men! What does it mean when a girl says this? Is it a good thing or does she find me a bit boring?

Thanks for your help, much appreciated.

2006-07-22 13:02:50 · 13 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday during our conversation my girlfriend said to me that the thing she most likes about me is that I am very sweet and really down to earth, which she says is uncommon in men! What does it mean when a girl says this? Is it a good thing or does she find me a bit boring?

Thanks for your help, much appreciated.

2006-07-22 13:01:53 · 19 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1 in Weddings

i just went to the mall and everywhere i see are couples holding hands together...
i miss that..
why is it so difficult for me to find love

2006-07-22 13:01:43 · 15 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday during our conversation my girlfriend said to me that the thing she most likes about me is that I am very sweet and really down to earth, which she says is uncommon in men! What does it mean when a girl says this? Is it a good thing or does she find me a bit boring?

Thanks for your help, much appreciated.

2006-07-22 13:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1 in Friends

I have tried the dating websites as suggested by people. I have met nice people right here at "answers." We IM and get along great until I send a picture. Yes, I am overweight. I tell them up front so it should not be a surprise. I am 5'6" and am 50 lbs over the "ideal" not maximum recommended weight for my height. I have lost a bit and am still losing. It is just taking a while. I believe in honesty in any relationship and won't lie about my size. Why is it that no one corresponds after they hear this?

2006-07-22 13:00:32 · 19 answers · asked by physandchemteach 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-22 12:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by Maria~~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i will love to heer your funny comments

2006-07-22 12:58:38 · 12 answers · asked by alliehotz 2 in Singles & Dating

is it possible for ppl to tell if theyre pregnant by lookin at their vag*na

2006-07-22 12:58:31 · 3 answers · asked by itsjustme5324 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Boyfriend is 14 years older and is very manipulative, jealous, selfish, and will use me up and throw me away when something better comes along. I have never been in a "healthy" relationship. I have never been on my own. My boyfriend hides things I need and will do things to my car to prevent me from going places. He makes up things to fight about. He sneaks off after I am asleep, gets drunk spends my paycheck, gets a DUI and he makes me feel guilty. I am really a smart person, but I am a bit too loyal - I wish I could find people that could teach me how to be healthy - I am living in a small town. No family here, but a couple of great friends - but they have their own problems and I don't want to burden them. What steps should I take to live alone, and how do I tell my boyfriend it's over without a real big mess?

2006-07-22 12:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by Ready2StopBeingUsed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-22 12:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by ...o(_insert witty comment_) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few of my friends believe in getting married early, but I've also had some older friends who believe yo should wait before settling down. Should you get married early on in life if you really care for someone or should you just wait, maybe giving up a really good relationship.

2006-07-22 12:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by EMonk 1 in Singles & Dating

No, I'm not trying to create controversy here . . . it's a legitimate question. I'll turn 40 this year, and have never been married. I am a confident, healthy, intelligent, romantic, not boring, and not "too nice" man. For some reason though, women hate me because of this.

It would be easy to say that I need to just "be myself" and some woman will eventually appreciate me . . . but that's no longer acceptable. My prime dating days are fading quickly. A change needs to be made, NOW.

With this in mind, what is the best way for me to become a bad boy so that women will want me? Should I slap them around? Cheat on them? Verbally abuse them? I'm open to any and all suggestions. Truly is a shame though that I have to sell my soul, just because I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone.

Only serious responses please.

2006-07-22 12:56:51 · 6 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been dating someone for 5 years and broke up 4 months ago .. and i want him back ... i asked him to go for a coffee today but he said no coz he doesnt want attatchments??? is it possible he wants me too??? how can i get him back??? i really miss him ... and i dont want him to get over me... i really want him back altho we had a few probs previously but for ***** sakes 5 years!!!! pls let me know what i can do ...

2006-07-22 12:56:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

best friend, bf, are you married already? fiancee? :)

2006-07-22 12:55:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-22 12:54:46 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel D 1 in Marriage & Divorce