A few of my friends believe in getting married early, but I've also had some older friends who believe yo should wait before settling down. Should you get married early on in life if you really care for someone or should you just wait, maybe giving up a really good relationship.
2006-07-22 12:57:42 · 18 answers · asked by EMonk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think being older is better because you have more of life's experiences to help guide you.
2006-07-22 12:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should enter a serious relationship when the right person comes along. I had always said I wasn't going to be married before I was 25. When I was 21 I met my husband, who was 26 and ready to settle down. I'm so glad I married him, we've been together for over 18 years now, each one better than the last.
So don't put a time frame on it. When it's right, it will happen.
2006-07-22 13:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who your with. Not necessarily what other people are doing. If you feel your too young, why don't you date them until you feel your ready? Either way, you don't just happen by a strong serious relationship. You have to work at it and make it a strong and serious relationship. And you can only really do that if you know how to communicate, really work with each other, and dedicate time to respect one another. sometimes you need to go through some bad relationships to learn how to do those things and to know if you have found the one for you. Basically, there is no need to rush. Go with your heart.
2006-07-22 13:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by honiebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get married any year after 30 cos getting married earlier in the life and creating problems in the early part of your life is problem.
2006-07-22 13:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by nuwanusa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find true love get married. It would be bad to lose that person because of what others have told you. You have to do what you think is right not what people tell you too do. Everyone is different. Deep down you already know the answer to this question.
2006-07-22 13:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Eerin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really caring for someone is no reason to get married. Loving someone is. You should only enter marriage if you are mature enough to handle both good and bad times and make adult decisions.
2006-07-22 13:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person gets married they forfeit all rights to the things a person can accomplish being single. When a person remains single they forfeit all rights to the things a person can accomplish being married. You have a choice to make about this world. Make it a good one even if it takes years to make.
2006-07-22 13:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dean B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the answer to that is decided for you. When the time is right, I hope you recognize it. Plans don't always work out just so, Thank Goodness. Life is too short to be rigid.
2006-07-22 13:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait, just because people are usually more able to deal with problems as they get older and have a little more experience...how many single moms ended up moving home because their boyfriend/child's father bolted, and left them with no way to support a kid? Hard to focus on career with baby on board...not impossible, just more difficult...
2006-07-22 13:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is an unexplainable wonderful thing, it doesnt really matter when u get married, it just depends on when u meet your soul mate. it could be when youre 21 yrs old or 45, just marry the one you love and always folow your heart.
2006-07-22 13:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
t's always been older and wiser. If one, has lived and experienced life, he or she, learns many of lifes lessons, so you know what can happen to relationships, and how to avoid the bad ones. You have been there, done that.
2006-07-22 13:01:21 · answer #11 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋