Family & Relationships - 21 July 2006

after all i am a social outcast.

2006-07-21 17:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Jezabel the annoyed cat 7 in Family

I'm confused. This man was a good friend for a long time. He was there for me when my husband and I were having problems. I love my husband and I want my marriage to work. How can I end this affair?

2006-07-21 17:15:02 · 19 answers · asked by danielle26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to go to a bridal shower for my boyfriends sister an I was wondering what to get her. I was looking at her registry and found a tablecloth set and the matchign napkins she wanted, i that good?

2006-07-21 17:14:48 · 2 answers · asked by jbird111087 1 in Weddings

i work 30 hours a week and my husband works 40 a week. i'm behind on bills and cant catch up. i dont spend my money foolishly either. it all has its use. anyone else feel frustrated trying to make ends meet. i know everyone else has these problems too. any advice?

2006-07-21 17:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by Cherie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-21 17:13:45 · 19 answers · asked by symone 1 in Singles & Dating

huh...i dont know what kind a girl or what the guys want...because i wanna be their dream girl.

2006-07-21 17:13:35 · 17 answers · asked by little star 1 in Singles & Dating

Last month some unknown female sent a text to me phone claiming that she was going with my man and alot of other stuff. Well once I got this text I got very upset with my boyfriend. So I called my boyfriend immediately but he didnt pick up the phone so I left a nasty voicemail on his answering machine I basically cussed him out. He called me back and he swore up and down that he didnt know what girl I was talking about.Anyways we both also called the number that the girl texted me from and it was out of service!! After this incident I apologized to him for jumping to conclusions, but his happened last month, and everytime we talk he always says i got believe you cussed me out like that!!..and he says that no one has every cussed him out the way i did!! What can i do to let him know that I'm sorry!! I have been cheated on so many times before and that's why i responded to the situation the way i did!! please help i think I truly hurt my boyfriend!!

2006-07-21 17:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by lady 1 in Singles & Dating

huh...i dont know what kind a girl or what the guys want...because i wanna be their dream girl.

2006-07-21 17:12:42 · 7 answers · asked by little star 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were discussing our fantasies. I didnt want to but she said she promised not to get upset, that it was her fault for asking if i said something she didn't like. So, I told her that I had always thought her 17 year old sister was hot and would love to use her like a little vvhore while my wife watched. Now my wife is totally pi$$ed at me. I didnt even say that I would actually do it, its just a fantasy. Why do women ask questions like this and then get upset when you answer truthfully?

~religious answers will be ignored~

2006-07-21 17:11:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have a girlfriend?

2006-07-21 17:10:59 · 58 answers · asked by sweet_pink_fairies 1 in Singles & Dating

have an overwelming lonesome feeling when you are not with your spouse even if you're out with your girlfriends. If so give me some pointers on how to let him go free, what things do you take interests in when he isn't doing something with you. How do you overcome this feeling. Note: Serious relationships, monogomous

2006-07-21 17:10:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-21 17:09:32 · 1 answers · asked by JC C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is over all a good person. She gets on my last nerve!!!! She makes stupid choices in men! There are times I don't even want to hear her voice. Although I care for her very much! Do I tell her what I feel? I usually avoid her. HELP!

2006-07-21 17:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by violet 1 in Friends

2006-07-21 17:08:43 · 37 answers · asked by 21questions 1 in Family

2006-07-21 17:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by colorist 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was Kyle.

It looked like he was carrying all of his
books

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a
Friday?

He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my
friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.

They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping
him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten
feet from him.

He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled
around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks.

They really should get lives.

"He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face.

It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.

As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never
seen him before.

He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.

He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I
liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books
again.

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious
muscles with this pile of books everyday!

"He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.

When we were seniors, we began to think
about college.

Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I
was going to Duke.

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be
a problem.

He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a
football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class.

I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw Kyle.

He looked great.

He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous.

Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be
great!"

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and
smiled.

"Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began

"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through
those tough years.

Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but
mostly
your friends...

I am here to tell all of you that being a
friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the
first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't
have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved.

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy
told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful
smile.

Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never under estimate the power of your actions.

With one small gesture you can change a person's life.

For better or for worse.

God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some
way.

Look for God in others.

2006-07-21 17:07:08 · 21 answers · asked by James Dean 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

psychosis or reality losed

2006-07-21 17:06:55 · 6 answers · asked by ref 2 in Singles & Dating

she is 21 months and she runs me from the tiem she wakes up till i get her to bed
i love her to death but lately she has been really hard to deal with she wont go to sleep she screams at me for no reason she will throw things if i put her in time out she thinks it is a game. i have treid her room and she hates it in their she screams like she is scared any suggestions or advice

2006-07-21 17:06:26 · 19 answers · asked by jenni_22_83 1 in Family

Do you think sex (number of times, sexual desire etc etc) decreases after marriage or does it increase after marriage.
- If it decreases then why do you this is the case
- If it increases then why do you think this is the case

PS... I am just trying to determine what i should expect my sex life to be like in case if I ever get married......... lol

2006-07-21 17:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He has told me he is not in love with me. I told him its no big deal because it just leaves the door open for someone who wants a dynamite, hard working RN with the kids raised and home paid for. I am ready for a committed relationship.
Why does he keep calling me at home at nite from his work. I feel like he is checking up on me, but then I think maybe he is just lonesome. Then I think he is just making sure I am still at home instead of out being the wild woman I was when he met me. Why do you think he keeps calling me?

2006-07-21 17:05:02 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been on a long distance relationship for 5 years, a month ago he told me wasn't feeling fine, he was extremely nervous and wasn't sleeping. He had planned to visit his family during vacations but felt so bad that thought he couldn't go, I talked to him everyday supported him and listened to him, 2 days before he had to take the plane to go home he talked to his parents and they made him go to a doctor, he told me he felt better but still didn't know if he was going to be able to go. The doctor adviced him among other things to take some sleeping pills because he hadn't slept well almost for a month, so we chatted and he took the pills, next day I tried to contact him, his messanger is always on, but I got no answer, the day he had to leave came and didn't hear from him, so now he's gone (I suppose) and I haven't heard from him in 10 days. I know he was really bad, but I expected at least to get a mail telling me he was fine as he knew I was worried about him. Should I be angry?

2006-07-21 17:05:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-21 17:04:45 · 13 answers · asked by cairceylee 2 in Friends

2006-07-21 17:03:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last month some unknown female sent a text to me phone claiming that she was going with my man and alot of other stuff. Well once I got this text I got very upset with my boyfriend. So I called my boyfriend immediately but he didnt pick up the phone so I left a nasty voicemail on his answering machine I basically cussed him out. He called me back and he swore up and down that he didnt know what girl I was talking about.Anyways we both also called the number that the girl texted me from and it was out of service!! After this incident I apologized to him for jumping to conclusions, but his happened last month, and everytime we talk he always says i got believe you cussed me out like that!!..and he says that no one has every cussed him out the way i did!! What can i do to let him know that I'm sorry!! I have been cheated on so many times before and that's why i responded to the situation the way i did!! please help i think I truly hurt my boyfriend!!

2006-07-21 17:01:57 · 10 answers · asked by lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to know if there are a lot of Puerto Ricans living in Atlanta because I am about to move there. I live in Alabama right now and there are not a lot of them here. I would like to live where they live in the ATL.

2006-07-21 17:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5 in Friends

The father of my kids wants to get back with me and get married taditionally like we always planned. But he went and got married to some other girl and I just found out last year he did this but we still had a relationship even though I was trying to finished college in a different state. This other woman has made his life hell and made him want to commit suicide. His mother has verafied this to be sure he was not lieing on how bad this other woman treats him. We have still visited each other this whole time and having relations and all that until I found out about her last year and he still has wanted to be with me when I visit and tells me he found out that his marriage is not valid when he went to a fammily law lawyer in Colorado that his marriage is not valid in Colorado causes he's married to me under the comman law marriage law that him and I are husband and wife and he has commited bigamy but he want to end it with her to be with me and he's afraid to tell her or a court.

2006-07-21 17:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by Starran 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you look for in a guy? be detail.

How would you show him that him that you like him?

2006-07-21 16:58:08 · 14 answers · asked by alliedbarton2005 1 in Singles & Dating

im in love with a guy a few years older than me, but he is in my grade. He is black and i am white and the only problem with that is that my father is racist and will refuse to except the fact i love him and would just laugh at the fact that he is older. What should i do?

2006-07-21 16:57:06 · 3 answers · asked by Lizz 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand what she is using it for.

2006-07-21 16:56:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the father of the bride and as it's my first time to give a public speech ( so to speak ) I'm finding the prospect of having to do this quite daunting and I'm a little nervous about it. Can anyone give me some ideas on how to overcome my nervousness and also if you have any ideas on a speech that is not long, yet appropriate for the occasion.

2006-07-21 16:55:50 · 11 answers · asked by tusitala 3 in Weddings