Last month some unknown female sent a text to me phone claiming that she was going with my man and alot of other stuff. Well once I got this text I got very upset with my boyfriend. So I called my boyfriend immediately but he didnt pick up the phone so I left a nasty voicemail on his answering machine I basically cussed him out. He called me back and he swore up and down that he didnt know what girl I was talking about.Anyways we both also called the number that the girl texted me from and it was out of service!! After this incident I apologized to him for jumping to conclusions, but his happened last month, and everytime we talk he always says i got believe you cussed me out like that!!..and he says that no one has every cussed him out the way i did!! What can i do to let him know that I'm sorry!! I have been cheated on so many times before and that's why i responded to the situation the way i did!! please help i think I truly hurt my boyfriend!!
2006-07-21 17:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only apologize, which you already did. You can't change your mistakes so he either needs to get over it and bug off. Girls have done worse things than get angry so don't sweat it. It's not like you cheated or did something huge. Personally it doesn't' make sense though. Out of service or not, that text had to come from somewhere. Would one of your friends do something like that out of jelousy, etc?
2006-07-21 17:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off ask his opinion on how he would feel if he thought he was being cheated on. I'm sure his reaction would have been about the same. apologize to him and reassure him that you care. hey, that's why you were so upset over the text, right?
but if he is still mad, let him be. im concerned that after a month he is still angry, that says he holds grudges which isn't good. either way you need to have a serious talk.
2006-07-22 00:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You showed him disrespect without getting the facts right!!! It would hurt me if someone cussed me out too and judging me first before asking. Write him a note that comes from your heart and tell him you're sincere and would never do something like that again. Ask him to forgive you and try to forget it. If he does forgive and forget, then he does really care about you and the relationship! Good Luck!!!
2006-07-22 00:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by MissShorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know about your past and that you have trust issues. Make it clear to him that you trust him. Appologize again for talking to him the way you did, but tell him that it was out of anger and that you will work on it, but he has to forgive you and get over it or else it will be a ongoing problem that lingers over your relationship and becomes a larger problem as time goes on.
2006-07-22 00:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by dugu$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get over it. Ask him what he would have done or said to you if he had gotten a text claiming that some guy had been with you and other stuff. I'm sure he would get very curious and check up on you.
2006-07-22 00:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Stephy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly, I think your man shouldn't act like that though. Making a fuss over things that is over. Its like so childish. Its not that I am encouraging your to leave or something, but what he did is a big no no. He shouldn't felt hurt or anything if he has nothing to hide. I am a man myself and I would do anything lika that. Period.
2006-07-22 00:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by dendygan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just make him understand that you love him so much..and you re obsessed with him...and the idea of him with another girl made you so upset and angry that you did that...would he not be doing the same thing if he hears something about u...try reasoning out...
he will understand...if your feelings for him are strong enough..
2006-07-22 00:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by fresh n honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds, just give your guy time.. and eventually he'll forget about it... You already did your part... It's up to him to forgive and forget.
Just be very careful with your words next time. =)
You can also explain to your guy about your incident of being cheated on before that way he'll understand...
The best way to forgive is to admit your mistake, and sincerely say your sorry.
^^
2006-07-22 00:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it... the dreaded topic... once and for all...
explain it to him the way you explained it here,,,
im sure he'd understand... but if he still doesnt and still
make a bug deal out of "the past", the hell with him!
you deserve someone better.
2006-07-22 00:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by killerweed_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly that! You're just very touchy since being burn't so many times!
2006-07-22 00:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋