Last month some unknown female sent a text to me phone claiming that she was going with my man and alot of other stuff. Well once I got this text I got very upset with my boyfriend. So I called my boyfriend immediately but he didnt pick up the phone so I left a nasty voicemail on his answering machine I basically cussed him out. He called me back and he swore up and down that he didnt know what girl I was talking about.Anyways we both also called the number that the girl texted me from and it was out of service!! After this incident I apologized to him for jumping to conclusions, but his happened last month, and everytime we talk he always says i got believe you cussed me out like that!!..and he says that no one has every cussed him out the way i did!! What can i do to let him know that I'm sorry!! I have been cheated on so many times before and that's why i responded to the situation the way i did!! please help i think I truly hurt my boyfriend!!
2006-07-21 17:01:57 · 10 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All you can do is explain to him that you are truly sorry and the reasons why you acted like that. It is up to him to accept it or not. Did the girl in the text message refer to him by name. It might be a something she did right before she transfered phone service to a new number or it could bvery well be that it was just a random prank. Meh. I hope all goes well for you.
2006-07-21 17:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by ithek_thundervoice 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you truly hurt him too. I understand jumping to conclusions, but calling him and leaving a nasty voice mail and cussing him is way out of line. It also shows you don't trust him at all, and that's not good for any relationship.
You need to trust him if you want this relationship to succeed. Remember he's not the other guys who have cheated on you in the past, he's someone else. Don't make him pay for the sins of other people in your life.
Give him time and space. Hopefully he'll get over it. Don't ever let it happen again.
There's a saying I like. When you assume something you make an "A**" out of U and ME.
good luck!
2006-07-22 00:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite clear why you have been cheated on so much. It sounds as though your problems are begining to take a toll. I think that maybe you should find the biggest bridge within your state and drive there tonight and do a Greg Louganis. Do it now!
2006-07-22 00:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by jaredshouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend with an answering machine, is a man that can milk a cow without buying it.
2006-07-22 00:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no offense, but you deserved it. you jumped to conclussions. i think you should buy him a case of beer give him some lovin. buy him and a buddy some tickets to a sporting event. you know the same thing that you would want him to do if the tables were turned
2006-07-22 00:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by daniel e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll get over it, tell him "I have been cheated on so many times before and that's why I responded to the situation the way I did," and tell him you're sorry if he was innocently blasted. and then let him know you still love him.
2006-07-22 00:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by ncmjohns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he really loves you he should understand...does he kno that uve been cheated on b4??? if not tell him...maybe things will get better between you guys...i hope things patch up 4 u 2...good luck
2006-07-22 00:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU JUST NEED TO EXPLAIN, THAT YOU HAVE
BEEN HURT SOME MANY TIMES IN THE PAST, YOU WERE
JUST UPSET ABOUT THE SITUATION, BUT ARE VERY SORRY
FOR WHAT YOU SAID.
2006-07-22 00:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, your boyfriend cheated on you, people don't just randomly make things up!
2006-07-22 00:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, feelings tend to mend themselves over time, but he also needs to try to get over it.........We are human beings and therefore entitled to make a mistake from time to time...........Don't worry about it........You have probably apologized over and over..........You did your part, now he needs to do his and get over it........Take care..........
2006-07-22 00:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋