What do you think of this?

Question

I have been on a long distance relationship for 5 years, a month ago he told me wasn't feeling fine, he was extremely nervous and wasn't sleeping. He had planned to visit his family during vacations but felt so bad that thought he couldn't go, I talked to him everyday supported him and listened to him, 2 days before he had to take the plane to go home he talked to his parents and they made him go to a doctor, he told me he felt better but still didn't know if he was going to be able to go. The doctor adviced him among other things to take some sleeping pills because he hadn't slept well almost for a month, so we chatted and he took the pills, next day I tried to contact him, his messanger is always on, but I got no answer, the day he had to leave came and didn't hear from him, so now he's gone (I suppose) and I haven't heard from him in 10 days. I know he was really bad, but I expected at least to get a mail telling me he was fine as he knew I was worried about him. Should I be angry?

Answer 1

I bet these have been the longest ten days of your life. I wish I knew the answer that would give you some peace. If you can, I fly out and check on him. If not, then contact the local authorities and tell them about his behavior. You might also want to check the local hospitals and/or contact his family. He might be really ill and not be able to let you know. I worry that his symptoms sound like a depressive breakdown with the nervousness and insomnia. I hope he is okay and just didn't realize that you were worried. Don't be angry until you what has happened. Peace.

Answer 2

because your in a long distance relationship thats the begining and end of you problems

Answer 3

I THINK YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED NOT MAD, YOU NEED
TO TALK TO HIS PARENTS, ETC TO FIND OUT WHAT GOING
ON HE MAY BE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE, SINCE LAST TIME
YOU TALK TO HIM HE WAS TAKING PILLS.

Answer 4

yes you should