She is over all a good person. She gets on my last nerve!!!! She makes stupid choices in men! There are times I don't even want to hear her voice. Although I care for her very much! Do I tell her what I feel? I usually avoid her. HELP!
2006-07-21 17:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by violet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she gets on your nerves like THAT, by all means, let her know!!!!!!!!!! Chances are she doesn't have a clue she's bothering you.............
2006-07-21 17:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the principles that govern an effective friendship is to "seek to understand before trying to be understood." I think that rather than judging your friends choices in men, you should attempt to understand why she makes these choices. First of all, you might learn that from her perspective the choices make good sense. Secondly, and maybe even more importantly, if you take the time to understand her and her reasons, she might be more open to listen to your perspective about her choices in men.
So don't tell her how you feel until you have as many as possible of the facts about her choices. Then when it's your turn, please don't tell her about your judgmental and aggravated perspective on her choices.
Have a nice day.
2006-07-21 17:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by mcjordansr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth!!! dont let her think u want to be her friend and then NOT! but if its her choices in guys u dont like help her make better choices in men.
2006-07-21 18:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell her what you think about her choices etc. Be honest. If she gets to be annoying tell her you have somethoing else to do. Maybe she just needs some one to talk to.. Could you be jeoluse of her.. Maybe she is trying to impress you , bye dating so many. Just grin and bare it or tell her you don't want to hear about etc, any more. . Pem
2006-07-21 17:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how the choices she makes are not wise.Help her meet other people who are good for her. You care, that's why you worry. If she's your friend...she'll understand. Good luck:)
2006-07-21 17:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Me and a few friends had an 'Emo-screaming talk' once...it cleared up ALOT of un-noticed problems.
2006-07-21 17:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Synyster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding back does nothing but make the problem worse let her know how you feel
2006-07-21 17:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by gould1272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one of them dumb azz friends tooo! just let her make them choices,she'll be calling ya and telling ya bout her problems,and when she does tell her ya dont wannna hear it!
2006-07-21 17:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by sha g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this problem a few weeks a go wat i did was i locked him in a meat freezer...hmm better go check up on him
2006-07-21 17:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋