Family & Relationships - 19 July 2006

My wife and I had problems and she complained to me alot. I made the necessary changes and she doesn't complain anymore. However, our relationship has serious problems: no life together, no intimacy; barely any physical contact- hardly any touching.

I am being mature and loving about our relationship. We went out for a walk and I expressed how I feel about our relationship and there's alot missing. I was specific.

She didn't have anything to say when I asked her what she thought.

I see no signs of improvement on her behalf. We love each other but we're not in love anymore.

Neither of us should live in an unhappy marriage. I will not wait forever if she has no intentions of changing.

I decided to wait one month from our talk, to see if she makes any improvement in her character; show some intimacy, show some interest in me or the relationship, or some initiative.

After one month, I'm separating.

Is this too harsh? Am I wrong?

2006-07-19 09:26:44 · 16 answers · asked by Sexual chocolate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why are black guys going out with white girls and im starting to see black girls going out with white guys too and no offence to white people.

2006-07-19 09:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are getting married at the beginning of March which, unfortunately, is hard to predict weather-wise. We are timid about going anywhere North because it's likely it will still be cold. We are on a strict budget (would like to spend under $1000) so we will probably need to drive to wherever we go. Any ideas of places within reasonable driving distance to Cincy that would be romantic enough for a honeymoon?

2006-07-19 09:26:22 · 5 answers · asked by AncientlyModern 2 in Weddings

2006-07-19 09:26:13 · 12 answers · asked by steverednova 1 in Singles & Dating

(that your world just fell apart)

Why?

2006-07-19 09:25:45 · 14 answers · asked by soulroute™ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 09:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by mykimmygirlz 2 in Family

2006-07-19 09:24:15 · 3 answers · asked by tiff2conl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-19 09:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like my question, who can tell me how to death of a close friend?
and i have other questions...
1. How to pass the grief?
2. What is good for passing it? what should to do?
3. What is bad for it? what shouldn't to do?
4. what to do in the future?

TKS

2006-07-19 09:23:28 · 6 answers · asked by Chuan 4 in Friends

fill in the blank!!

2006-07-19 09:21:50 · 14 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend dumped me the other night. So instead of sitting at home crying over him, i went out and ended up getting someone's number. My ex is mad. should i feel guilty about that?

2006-07-19 09:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am affraid if he thinks that I always look for a chance to make out!!! How can I control it? Advice please

2006-07-19 09:20:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im going to get 5points subtracted from just asking a question. what r we all gonna do when theres nothing to answerrrr.

2006-07-19 09:19:58 · 8 answers · asked by jemima 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have a slight issue regarding tuxes. When my fiance and I first started planning our wedding, my bridesmaids (which are my sisters and my neice) paid for they're dresses. I didnt ask them to, but they knew I didnt have the money, and my parents are putting out alot of money for the wedding, so they thought it was only fair. OK, no biggie. Well, we thought to make it fair, then the grooms men should pay for their own tux. At first, my fiance and I both agreed... well then my fiance brother got married a few weeks ago, and my fiance was in it, and he didnt have to pay for his tux. now my fiance says he would feel bad if he made everyone pay for their tux (we will need 7 tuxes total, each at $129 to rent!) Thats $903!!!! What are we going to do?? I cant ask my parents since they are paying SOOO much... and we cant, we dont have the money. Any advice PLEASE??

2006-07-19 09:19:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay so i don't know if i like Josh Collins or not. sometimes he's sweet sometimes not. and another kid named Justin. i think i like him. they are both very nice. and i think Justin likes me. justin gos to the ymca. Josh however comes to my church so they do not knoe each other. but both of them are incredibly nice. and they are both my best guy friends. i don't know if i like them or not??

2006-07-19 09:19:17 · 2 answers · asked by PeppermintPandora<3 4 in Friends

Girls what do you find the sexiest?
A)small p e n i s
B)third t e st i c l e
C)mullet haircut
D)speech impedement
E)severe acne
F)herpes
G)genital warts
H)premature e j a c u l a t o r s
I)body odor
J)other

2006-07-19 09:18:53 · 14 answers · asked by PISC 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 4 years and I are growing apart. I can feel it. Whenever we talk now, it ends in an argument- before we had everything in common and rarely raised our voices to one another. I feel alone and exiled, he won't communicate what's going on to me anymore. I don't even know how to tell him how I feel.

Anyone have any advice?

2006-07-19 09:18:07 · 10 answers · asked by runrhottee 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been doing a show at a park here in Georgia and I got an offer to spend a month trying out for a new band (like n-sync or something), they said I wouldn't make any money doing it and it is down in florida which is a long way away from my friends and that will take up my whole summer. I just don't know if it is worth it. What should I do?

2006-07-19 09:18:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we loved each very much but when the summer ended he had to go back to college and i had to finish with a divorce from my then husband although he has calledthe child his all these years. i told my child a few years ago and she now is ready to meet him if he is interested.i have know clue what to say to him in a letter. i cant get his phone number it is unlisted so i have to send a letter. i have no clue what to say to the man i fell in love with and broke his heart . i hope someone can help. if there are any questions let me know . thanks

2006-07-19 09:17:17 · 9 answers · asked by niceroundsoft 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my boyfriend but iam in love with my son's father they both treat me good how do i decied without hurting anyone's feelings

2006-07-19 09:16:36 · 20 answers · asked by browneyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Every time i try to talk to him about it he don't want to hear it, or he crys and says i'm hurting him.We have 2 children together and i have tried everything i feel like i'm the only one putting anything into our marrige.So i told him maybe we should just be friends and he won't accept that either.. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do?

2006-07-19 09:16:13 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. My problem is that I don't really feel anything with condoms on. I have tried using magnums, but I still feel like circulation is cutting off and it causes me to lose erection. my girlfriend takes birthcontrol pills. We have tried with no condom and I finished just fine, but how safe is this as birth control? I am not worried about STD's as we plan to marry and have kids some day(just don't want them now), and she very much hates the thought of abortion

2006-07-19 09:15:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 09:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-19 09:14:41 · 4 answers · asked by soulroute™ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

As usual everything is going fine on my end so thanks for asking, I hope alls wel for you if not how I can make it better.... Will pie help?

2006-07-19 09:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Matthew C 3 in Singles & Dating

Any tips for a long lasting relationship?

2006-07-19 09:13:47 · 18 answers · asked by warm_like_winter 2 in Singles & Dating

i was drunk at his cousin's party last night
and he was supposed to be there
but he didnt feel well
so i still went and his cousin is my ex
memories came back from a past party
and before i knew it we were making out
it didnt go past that
he asked me if we could go farther but i said "no"
he also knew that i was with his cousin
and this morning he called me asking if i was going to break up with my boyfriend
i said dont ask me that
then he messaged me on myspace
and asked one last time if me and him were going to hook up
i had gone out with the guy off and on for 3 years
i thought i had loved him before
but then i got over him
and now im in love with his cousin, my current b/f
but we've only been going together for 2 months and only known him for a year
they didnt even know that they were cousins til this year
i dont know what to do!!
and please only real comments, none like u s**t or that im a wh0re im really confused

2006-07-19 09:13:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance is so weird. he treats me ok, better than anyone else ever has, but he has a kid to his ex- who he hates- but it still bugs me. i miscarried last year, and it hurts to see her kid and not mine. i dont know if i can deal w/ it all the rest of my life, but i dont wanna break up. hes fun to be with and i enjoy my time with him, the only flaw is that hes not real sensitive at all, and doesnt show any emotion at all whatsoever. are these reasons to break up, if not, how do i fix my feelings???

2006-07-19 09:13:27 · 14 answers · asked by Erin P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think we are, thats why we hate each other so much. No one hates like family. At the same time we all can relate to each other on some level, finance, Death, Life, Joy, Sorrow ect.... Does that make us one big Family?

2006-07-19 09:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you haven't gotten married yet, or if you have already been married, what was the color scheme? I probably would want a white and pink wedding, or really any wedding with pastel colors basically. And just to try something new, I might even go multi-colored pastel like white, pink, and pastel orange...it would be something different from what I've always seen at church...

2006-07-19 09:11:17 · 27 answers · asked by Adelaide_21 3 in Weddings