My boyfriend dumped me the other night. So instead of sitting at home crying over him, i went out and ended up getting someone's number. My ex is mad. should i feel guilty about that?
2006-07-19 09:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you should feel vindicated! The best revenge is living well right? Keep on living it up and watch him stew!
2006-07-19 09:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty at all. He dumped you. He can get over it. You shouldn't even be talking to him about it if anything at all. If you had gone out, gotten wasted, took 3 guys home and had an orgy it would still have been none of his business. You did absolutely nothing wrong. I suggest you stop talking to him altogether if he's going to act that way after dumping you.
2006-07-19 16:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not.
Your ex is exactly just that!...your EX!!....which means he has no claims over you anymore.You were a free woman the moment he let you go.
Now, that maybe he's booty hurt because your actions probably showed you didn't care, is something else.
There's two ways to look at it.
You-he dumped me!..why should i cry for a guy who doesn't want to be with me?.....and I (lostbyluv15) agree!...that's just a waist of time and emotions.
Him-i barely broke up with her!how can she just not care?! did i really mean nothing to her?!was she waiting for me to brake up with her?!........(LBâ¥) ...he's thinking all of these things and maybe now has really NO regrets for letting you go seeing how you're doing just fine with out him.
you probably hurt his man ego a little bit.But you shouldn't feel guilty at all.Honestly, he has no reason to be mad seeing how, when he dumped you, he practically said i don't care anymore.So why should you?
...do you get me?....well.....i hope all goes well :)
2006-07-19 16:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Absolutely not. He dumped you, then means your relationship with him is over. He has no right to say anything about who you date or give your phone number to, and how/why does he know about it anyway? Just go out and have a good time. Move on - forget about him. Have fun, Enjoy! Good luck.
2006-07-19 16:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! He's mad because he was probably testing you and he was the one that lost out. You did nothing wrong if you were no longer in a committed relationship. He needs to get over it!
2006-07-19 16:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by kami m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He dumped you...you are now a single girl. Don't let him make you feel guilty for his mistake.
2006-07-19 16:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, he dumped you, relationship over, time to move on.
2006-07-19 16:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello NO!! He dumped you!! What difference does it make to him? Even if you are still friends it's none of his business
2006-07-19 16:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by onfire921 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, serves him right for letting you go. I think it's great that you didn't sit around moping over him.
2006-07-19 16:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dumped you, who cares if he's mad. If he wants you then let him beg to come back.
2006-07-19 16:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋