Family & Relationships - 16 July 2006

When you think you've found love & your lover apparently loves u too, why then does it seem far too easy to do something wrong (especially when you don't know what you've done wrong), for your 'lover' to no longer love u. She was going through splitting with her Ex-partner of 10 years who kept her like a housekeeper & never let her go out, we became involved but never had intercourse, only stimulation at her request. she had to make excuses for us to be able to see each other. It did feel like love but now i don't know. Things got difficult for her to get away from her ex. Then after a very pleasant night she just seemed to switch off. No more texts. No more phone calls unless i made them. she said i should hate her? but i didn't. A fornight later she's now going out with old friends apparently to find someopne as her friends told her to do. She never told anyone, not even her friends or family about me & our times together. Was i just being used? My heads getting screwed up with this.

2006-07-16 01:51:18 · 9 answers · asked by Phylofic Nod 1 in Singles & Dating

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Wot do u usually say and do when ur bout to orgasm?

2006-07-16 01:50:00 · 16 answers · asked by Nancy D 1 in Singles & Dating

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Bored, bored, bored, bored, can someone tell me something inetersting?

2006-07-16 01:49:36 · 26 answers · asked by CJ75 1 in Singles & Dating

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what is the meaning of friendship?

2006-07-16 01:48:53 · 11 answers · asked by shiful 2 in Friends

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whats better?

is it better to cook dinner for a loved one or take them to a fancy restaurant and your not a bad cook by the way

2006-07-16 01:47:45 · 15 answers · asked by chaopred 3 in Singles & Dating

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would you date a crossdresser?

2006-07-16 01:46:56 · 12 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Singles & Dating

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Do you believe a long distance relationship can be maintained?

2006-07-16 01:46:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Will a boy raised by only his mother have all the essential tools needed to become a man?

Or will he lack something and look for it later on in life as he grows older? I have met plenty of men who were raised only by their mother and they have grew to become very refined and decent young men. Yet i've always noticed that there always seemed to be something that they felt like was missing in their lives, something only a father could give them.

2006-07-16 01:43:45 · 20 answers · asked by Sxyblkdiva 1 in Friends

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can i or not?

2006-07-16 01:43:06 · 6 answers · asked by yousef55555 1 in Singles & Dating

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my bf's childhood friend loves him.but we love both each other very much.she is distrubing us.how to get rid.

she is distrubing us very much. she calls him daily. as she is his best friend he is unable to tell her that don't distrub me. but i don't like her to call him. and she even had a bf who loves her very much. and she too loves him. and i told her about the matter and asked her not to call again. but she didn't understand me. she is doing all these to tease me and make me cry. and she know how much i love him. help plz how to convince her and ger rid of her . please i am sick with this girl.

2006-07-16 01:41:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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you wake up in the morning next to someone bug ugly do you run, scream or politely stay?

2006-07-16 01:40:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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how to find my life partner?

I am a middle aged Chinese woman living in Hong Kong, I hope to know how to meet a boyfriend in USA?

2006-07-16 01:39:04 · 4 answers · asked by winnyhk 1 in Singles & Dating

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I want to keep son after our visitation so he's no longer abused step mom has temp cust Idon'twanttroublelaw

I have attrny but my step mom & possible son's dad(she let parole 2 home)have backstabbed me & when I asked them 2 pick my up because I had run out of meds I've taken for years legaly prescribed. I just don't get the whole script filled at once because of cost. You can actually die if you suddenly stop them. So I went 2 hospital to get help till my Doctor got back from weekend. They got atemp hearing for temp custody & stepmom got temp cust & thedeadbeatdad(paternal not sure)lives w/her! She' mentally abused me since a child & has alwaystried to control me(i'm 31) & she tells me how 2 raise son puts me down and I have put myself in lots of councelling 2 learn 2 deal w/her crul behavior & I have given them both money,bought groceries,& helped & I just got totatlly used &taken advantage of &lied to. I pick up my files from last councelor monday(shetold us to move immediately) for attrny. She has always wanted my son &deadbeat who left 5yrs ago.Can Ikeep son w/out arrest &call CPSon her.

2006-07-16 01:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by 33&should know better! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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if your man whats a motorbike would you learn to ride or just go pillion or take the bus?

2006-07-16 01:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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now that i am divorced is it good to get some things off my chest by writing my ex wife about my thoughts?

2006-07-16 01:36:40 · 23 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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Do you feel that children who are raised in two party homes are more likely to live happier lives?

This has been a on-going debate between my friends and I. while i think that it is wonderful for children to grow up with both "active" parents in the house, it isn't always going to happen like that. And just because a child grows up in a single parent home doesn't mean they will have more problems in life than that of one who has both parents. Let's look at it for a second. Say both parents live in the home yet , they argue, have little to no commnuication and are very emotionally unattached to one another. Or say a child has both parents in the home but one or both parents work more and spend time with their child less. Wouldn't this effect the child more than that of a child with only one active parent? My friends say a child in a two party home will grow up happier, I say lets look at it from all angles and then decide. What do you think?

2006-07-16 01:35:54 · 19 answers · asked by Sxyblkdiva 1 in Friends

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My hatred for my sister is making me insane, what can I do?

I have many reasons to hate my older sister, I'll just give you one. In 2004 received a warrant for my arrest because she had been caught stealing and used my name. I had to file a police report, go to court and spend approximately 1,500 to get this all cleared up and off my record. Over the years my sister has hurt me so many times. She never says sorry. She never tries to make amends, she never shows any sign that she has a clue how much she's affected my life. she doesn't care, I know she doesn't care. I think she is a sociopath. She makes me so angry, and she isn't someone I can talk to. She's the worst liar I've ever known. The real stressor for me is, I find myself wishing she would die...I'm serious, and I know it's sick, but I hate her that much. The resentment and hate is consuming me, what can I do?

2006-07-16 01:32:33 · 7 answers · asked by Kerry 7 in Family

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What do I do with my Marine?

When we are alone my husband loves me and understands me. When he is gone and on the phone or internet he is cold and mean. I feel like he is mean and he doesn't care about my feelings. He thinks I am playing games and wants to fight. But he is cold and he hurts me. He doesn't understand that all I want is an apology. He just fights it out until I give up.

2006-07-16 01:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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My in-laws are cursing me my husband & my kids what do I do?I am religious person but feel God isnt listening?

We are having financial and mental stress due to their cuses. My husbands sisters are also cursing us and are very very jealous of me and my kids and my husbands business. Although he has soo much money problem but does not tell anyone about it. My son is also suffering of a terminal genetic disorder. This is also a cause for our mental stress. We are planning to shift from this place to a better one that is the capital and my in-laws are jealous of that aswell. I feel God is giving them more and more happiness and us more and more pain. We both are God fearing and do not wish or do bad for anyone. What can I do to get a little peace???

2006-07-16 01:27:18 · 13 answers · asked by Sharon S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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should i shave my balls?

im a guy, im about to have have sex tomorrow but she'll prob get turned off by the pubic hair. idk...

2006-07-16 01:24:20 · 14 answers · asked by fellowcomp 2 in Singles & Dating

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Someone please help me.?

Someone please help me. I have been married happily for 2 years now and have never cheated on my wife. She is also my first everything. We found out just recently that she is 2 months pregnant. Ever since I found out I have been having sex dreams about a female co–worker. Me and this female are very close and are good friends. I just can’t stop thinking about her. Is it normal for me to be feeling this while my wife is pregnant with my first baby? I feel so bad for even thinking about another woman... What should I do?!?!?! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
No one knows about these feelings...

2006-07-16 01:22:54 · 17 answers · asked by A leap in the right direction. 2 in Marriage & Divorce