When you think you've found love & your lover apparently loves u too, why then does it seem far too easy to do something wrong (especially when you don't know what you've done wrong), for your 'lover' to no longer love u. She was going through splitting with her Ex-partner of 10 years who kept her like a housekeeper & never let her go out, we became involved but never had intercourse, only stimulation at her request. she had to make excuses for us to be able to see each other. It did feel like love but now i don't know. Things got difficult for her to get away from her ex. Then after a very pleasant night she just seemed to switch off. No more texts. No more phone calls unless i made them. she said i should hate her? but i didn't. A fornight later she's now going out with old friends apparently to find someopne as her friends told her to do. She never told anyone, not even her friends or family about me & our times together. Was i just being used? My heads getting screwed up with this.
2006-07-16 01:51:18 · 9 answers · asked by Phylofic Nod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is something you give away, unselfishly, rather than try to keep and hold onto it.
2006-07-16 02:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think Keeping it. I have been in Love 3 times and I am only 18. So I have had no trouble in finding it. But...I have only been able to keep one love of the three.
2016-03-27 07:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had pizza every day and then i gave you chicken, would you settle? No you want to try other things first.....The same for her she tasted you but only for her pleasure.....Did she satisfly you sexually? Or was it only her getting off? Was it love? NO.....You were just caught up on something you knew you were never gonna have.....Thats why u were so excited.......Besides what knid of a girl is she? A CHEATER!!! Dont you think that when she gets tired of you she would do the same thing...Cheat !!!!!!!!!!! Find your self a single girl.....that could be all yours.....yummy, yummy.........You deserve better then a cheating hoochie..........
2006-07-16 02:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to keep coz you know from the very start that you cannot be with her through the rest of your life..... Ten years is too much to bear but she is still with him meaning she loves the guy.... and its true you've been use as scapegoat when she has no one to turn tooo....
She is not worth it...... so stops bagging yourself thinking what went wrong..... Show her that you can find a better person than her and introduce it to her...... so she will know how hard to dind one just like you.
2006-07-16 02:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not real love. Real love is never having to say you are sorry for all the things happening wrong. Real love is give and take. Yours is infactuated love. Attraction of plus and minus polarity but the sparks could not last.
2006-07-16 01:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by flintstone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe love has already changed for you and her.So you may find new life not stick on her any longer.As long as you have a thought you can go ahead for new one.
Carefully face every girl you find in future.
2006-07-16 01:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She saw you as a scape goat - forget her. You gave her the support in which she needed at the time. You can do better as you seem like a really decent person.
Love
Beth from Aussie
2006-07-16 01:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she didnt have the same feelings as you did. maybe she see you as a friend now and dont have the guts to tell you. so she is weaning you off. sorry
2006-07-16 01:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thingds change people get bored of people and want to move on experiemnt and meet new people.
2006-07-16 01:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋