We are having financial and mental stress due to their cuses. My husbands sisters are also cursing us and are very very jealous of me and my kids and my husbands business. Although he has soo much money problem but does not tell anyone about it. My son is also suffering of a terminal genetic disorder. This is also a cause for our mental stress. We are planning to shift from this place to a better one that is the capital and my in-laws are jealous of that aswell. I feel God is giving them more and more happiness and us more and more pain. We both are God fearing and do not wish or do bad for anyone. What can I do to get a little peace???
2006-07-16 01:27:18 · 13 answers · asked by Sharon S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Me and my husband are the kind of persons who try to good for any and everyone and I am teaching my kids the same. But the people around us are not that way, by the way I am a foreginer married to their son/brother and they are jealous even of my 8 year old daughter and my ill son and say nasty things to them. I have always told my husband to help his family in whatever way he can but they think I am the one who has stolen him from them. I have served them physically when they have been ill, financially when they said they did not have money and have got only curses and bad wishes for myself and my small family from them. I know God is watching and I fear Him and do not do or say anything bad to them or anyone for that matter.
2006-07-16 01:59:04 · update #1
ONE MOST IMPORTANT DETAIL, I HAVE NEVER ARGUED OR TALKED BACK TO ANY OF MY IN-LAWS BE IT MOTHER-IN-LAW OR THE 7 SISTER-IN-LAWS AND HAVE GIVEN THEM THE SAME RESPECT AS I GAVE MY PARENTS EVEN WHEN THEY SAID NASTY AND ABUSIVE THINGS TO ME AND MY KIDS.
2006-07-16 10:17:20 · update #2
god is there and thinks about you. time will solve the problems. just be patient and thankful to god.
2006-07-16 01:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one can curse you. It seems like you are putting all your energy into what they are saying or believing that your problems are because of them. Pretend that they don't exist and it is just you and your husband and children and sit down and try to figure out why the financial problems are happening. Here is an example of what I mean. Lets say everyone thinks you are a witch (pretend remember) and someone makes you mad so you yell at them " i curse you " and since everyone thinks that you are a witch that person is scared to death and because that person is so busy watching his back he trips and falls and breaks his leg. You didn't cause him to break his leg , he broke it all by himself. The mind is a powerful thing and some know how to use it and others don't making them very easy pray. Make your mind strong and stop worrying about your in laws and worry only about your little family and you'll soon see that your problems will begin to disappear.
2006-07-16 01:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The married vocation takes time and potential that isn't have the ability to be dedicated to God. with the intention to be a hundred% dedicated to God, you may have a hundred% of your self to grant, and meaning no longer giving it to all people else. it relatively is the clarification for a celibate priesthood. i'm married, and a spiritual Catholic, however the married life takes remote from my potential and time and that i've got a problematic time being as religious as i might like. I on occasion pass over Mass and function a problematic time getting my on a daily basis Rosary in some days. A spouse demands interest, and there is in straightforward terms plenty to circulate around. once you're looking right into a spiritual vocation, you may proceed to be unattached until eventually you're beneficial of what you would be doing.
2016-10-07 23:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God always listens! He works in mysterious ways. You need to do the best you can and hang in there. God also says, he will not give you more than you can handle. So you are a strong person. Don't fight or argue with your in laws, it does no good. Move away if you can and trust in God to help you. It will all work out. It always does.
2006-07-16 01:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear,
Remember that God is always there for you. don't doubt that. And be sure that the person that curses someone curses himself; cannot and seems to not have sleep in day or night. Take a deep breath and relax. after you've done this try, please, try to pray for them. God will listen you...with no doubt. Now the most important are you and your family. if you can, change your home, move in another city...will be hard at the beginning but will only be for good.
I'll pray for you all. Sincerely,
S.
2006-07-16 01:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be still and know that He is God.
Faith is reliance on God. Roll with the punches and trust in the Lord. This may be a test of faith. Is your reward here or in heaven??? Those that have the "fine" things in this life have their reward already. Endure affliction like a good soldier.
He that endures to the end shall have everlasting life. I've had no small share of afflictions, myself; but, God is faithful to His word and we will have our reward in heaven.
(Mar 4:11) And he said unto them, Unto you it is given to know the mystery of the kingdom of God: but unto them that are without, all these things are done in parables:
(Mar 4:12) That seeing they may see, and not perceive; and hearing they may hear, and not understand; lest at any time they should be converted, and their sins should be forgiven them.
(Mar 4:13) And he said unto them, Know ye not this parable? and how then will ye know all parables?
(Mar 4:14) The sower soweth the word.
(Mar 4:15) And these are they by the way side, where the word is sown; but when they have heard, Satan cometh immediately, and taketh away the word that was sown in their hearts.
(Mar 4:16) And these are they likewise which are sown on stony ground; who, when they have heard the word, immediately receive it with gladness;
(Mar 4:17) And have no root in themselves, and so endure but for a time: afterward, when affliction or persecution ariseth for the word's sake, immediately they are offended.
(Mar 4:18) And these are they which are sown among thorns; such as hear the word,
(Mar 4:19) And the cares of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, and the lusts of other things entering in, choke the word, and it becometh unfruitful.
(Mar 4:20) And these are they which are sown on good ground; such as hear the word, and receive it, and bring forth fruit, some thirtyfold, some sixty, and some a hundred.
(2Co 4:17) For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory;
(2Co 4:18) While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.
May God if it is His will, strengthen your faith and bring you the peace that passes all understanding...amen
I hope this helps you, I prayed for you also.
2006-07-16 01:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a God in order for it to listen, point is there is no God to listen so stop waisting your time talking and praying. Fix your own problem the best way you can and live with the results....as God would have you do anyways....hahahaha God....
2006-07-16 01:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by dyno_bot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, when you pray to God, the answer is "no". Your family, husbands sisters(your in-laws) ETC... too many people in your business, Actually, you may be the jealous one. You need to try to live without so many people in your "bizness", and you in theirs.
2006-07-16 01:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Location, Location, Location. Move and ignore them. God still loves you and all us, you think that god is giving them what they want , but know this. Satan gives people what they want to ...for a price, so just wait , they will get theirs.
2006-07-16 01:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you ask God anything you should know His rights over you and you should fulfill these rights first. i can put you through to ex Rev. Estes who will help you. Send me an email.
2006-07-16 04:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May God Bless You and Yours.
Peace and love
2006-07-16 10:54:26 · answer #11 · answered by digilook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋