Family & Relationships - 14 July 2006

How do you deal with the death of your first love. He died 9 years ago and I still think about him almost every day. I also have dreams about him alot and even fanticise about what my life would be like if he had lived. His death was so unexpected and left alot of unanswered questions. There are still days when I cry over how much I miss him. No other man has every measured up to him since, even though I am now married with a family and I do love my husband. My mother says that I am loving him with the love of a teenager and I still think of him because of the unanswered questions. Is this normal?

2006-07-14 09:03:56 · 19 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, ive had this problem since long.
Its always the first starting that sucks, but later one...it gets so good that i usually end up with a number and contact.
So how can i be more ..seductive... or sleeq in my start ups in my college.

2006-07-14 09:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Razy_04 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just starting what is working up to be a nasty divorce. Tried very hard to make it work with as little drama as possible but my husband is just hell bent on making my life miserable and my son is so angry. I want this so he's mad at me. I started asking him for a seperation months ago, he refused to move out or sign the agreement, living this way has been hell. My marriage has been over for a while and I went out for a drink with a friend, he followed me with my kids in the car, it was ugly. I know it was wrong but I feel like an animal in a cage, now I think my son might never forgive me.

2006-07-14 09:03:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm adopted and i don't know how to deal wil the pain

consuler don't help, parents and friends don't understand

what should i do

2006-07-14 09:03:13 · 21 answers · asked by ktpunk 1 in Family

She has sacked me from the business my friend and myself had together, and has accused us of having an affair. I have know my closest friend for over 30 years and I don't want to give him up because of her. Even he admits she is a nightmare but he stays with her because they have children. Any advice is appreciated!

2006-07-14 09:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by Bum Gravy. 5 in Friends

2006-07-14 09:02:41 · 9 answers · asked by ajnabee 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I have a wonderful relationship, we both know we were meant for each other. At times we get along better than best friends, other times it is just pure hell in arguments. What is a good way to solve this, we both want it to work. We want to try something other than a therapist. PLEASE HELP, the arugments are over petty things. Im really scared that it will hurt our relationship.

2006-07-14 09:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by blueeyes24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well ppl please temme wht do i do..i m really confused..i dnt wanna go ahead wid it..as for now! how do i say no and still assure him dat when im confy wid him he wont have to ask me!

2006-07-14 09:02:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 09:02:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even though i receive child support and alimony, (which most people would find substantial) am i entitled to more money based upon my ex income quadradupled, in the last few years.
i have 5 young children in school, i am a homemaker, and have not worked in 14 years. i supported my ex and put him through law school, there was no mony at the time of the divorce to split, but as stated did receive good settlement in alimony, although what seems like small amounts of child support?

2006-07-14 09:01:45 · 25 answers · asked by maryann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sex as much as me? cause i think about it alot; it's kind of sad, i have a mind like a guys only it's made for a girl. but how much do you guys like it?

2006-07-14 09:01:25 · 17 answers · asked by Cirque Du Freak 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law sends me all these emails from AFA (The American Family Association). This site gay bashes, and pushes religon down your throat. It really makes me mad that these people think that if you believe in different things than them you are the scum of the earth. Anyways, back to my sis-in-law. I would ignore the emails but it pisses me off everytime I get one and Im starting to dislike her . What can I do about this? If she knew that I have gay friends and that I cant stand holy rollers, it would probably cause a lot of tension in the family between us. But I just cant stand the fact that she sends me these emails, it makes me realize that she knows nothing about me and would hate me if she really knew me.

2006-07-14 09:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-14 09:00:52 · 6 answers · asked by Funny Lady 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have the glass ones, but they are EXPENSIVE...

2006-07-14 09:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by living this life 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 09:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by Volleyball&BasketballQueen 1 in Friends

2006-07-14 09:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-14 08:59:42 · 2 answers · asked by Emily rocks 1 in Friends

Ok women what kind of guy would you like to date and what kind of guys have you gone out with the past or are going out with right now? I'm asking because I see alot of my friends on myspace that say they want one kind of guy on the internet but go with the exact opposite in real life.

2006-07-14 08:59:17 · 4 answers · asked by Greg 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel bad because I got betrade by my bestfriend 6 yrs ago and I haven't been able to make a bestfriend due to what she did to me. Would I be able to trust ever again?

2006-07-14 08:58:57 · 25 answers · asked by yo_010180 2 in Friends

I will be a high school student this September. What is a good way to attract guys? Any positive tips are welcome!

2006-07-14 08:58:50 · 13 answers · asked by Time goes by 2 in Singles & Dating

she is sooo amazing and i dont know what to do:(

2006-07-14 08:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by hellowkkiittyy 1 in Friends

i think its d most bful feelin...dat each person shd atleast experience once is his/her lifetime.......its simply sinful...
so get goin u lovers!!!!!!!
god bless u all

2006-07-14 08:57:55 · 5 answers · asked by dee... 1 in Singles & Dating

I get hit up by older men whose line to me, a 21 yr old, is " I wanna take care of u gurl"......... I have a man and we are equals, just wanna ask the community there thoughts on this.

2006-07-14 08:57:30 · 6 answers · asked by sugasofly85 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 08:57:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to make sure his b'day isn't forgotten amidst all the wedding celebrations - if I could surprise him by standing up in front of all and say to him " I've done/got this for you ......................." Haven't a clue what though !

Thanks !

2006-07-14 08:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by fudge 3 in Weddings

so, my husband is in a weird funk lately... and i need to get him out of it.... i need the most amazing date idea ever!!!! PLEASE HELP!

2006-07-14 08:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4 in Singles & Dating

I meet my fiancee over a year ago. It was back in Hawaii while he was in the Marine Corps. To shorten up this story, he moved here from his parents in Missouri to live with me. Technically we weren't engaged yet, but I feel like I sort of bullied him into proposing. I would meantion things like what my mother found online (a cheap very pretty wedding dress) or other things. I took him to the park in the next state over and he said "This is a nice place for a wedding". That was exactly why I took him there. Now I feel that after he finally did propose that I "put the gun to his head". Should I just slow down and wait for him to make the decisions? All he really has to do is say a word and I have everything done. I feel really bad. Can you all help me?

2006-07-14 08:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not talking about a guy that you are dating and have a romantic interest in , I mean guys that mention this in their personals ad. I think that all these things are important too and there isn't anything wrong with wanting them but it just seems a little too forward when dealing with a stranger. I get the impression when a guy puts a lot of this into his ad, that he is looking to get physical really quick and that is his main goal. I have my agendas to in what I want in a relationship but if I put alot of it in my ad, I am told it would scare guys a way. I am looking for marriage and committment but I don't fill my ad full of it because it would seem to forward with a stranger and I feel that guys that emphasize the physical side of a relationship are really just looking for some quick action without any real committment. Nothing wrong with kissing and hugging and stuff but it leads to other things too quickly

2006-07-14 08:54:58 · 2 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-14 08:54:48 · 7 answers · asked by surf's up 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf and i were on bad terms for a week or so after having an almost very bad break up 3 months ago... recently i found out she just started talking to a guy, she knew through her best friend, online. There was heavy flirting on both ends and she almost went down to his place. when i asked about the guy she tried to brush me off by telling me that i was being paranoid and that he was just a friend, but when i told her about the details she came clean and said she was sorry. She seemed more upset that i found out and said that it wouldnt have been an issue even if i didnt found out coz it wasnt gonna go anywhere coz she loved me a lot and cared about our relationship. For some reason even after almost a week i cant seem to get past it and i still see her talking all cutsie and tootsie to the same guy. I would think if someone would care about the relationship they would just stop talking to that person........ am i right????

2006-07-14 08:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by random Guy 1 in Singles & Dating